Complete re-re-write time. (3rd time is the charm?) I am not able to commit to a full time relationship at this point in my life, and as aresult there are things happening that will take precedence over anyone I might meet here. So effectively, I am looking for a reasonably casual relationship at the present time, I am not saying that this will not change, just that this is the way my life is at the moment. So, I'm 44, seperated but still responsible for my youngest and her mother (which is a long and involved story). I have brown grey hair, blue eyes, and live and work in the western suburbs of sydney. I like to read and watch movies, play computer games, and also spend time with nice people. I am more often than not a caring person which means that sometimes I end up running all over the place to help people. I am a professional but like to take things in a casual manner. I am also lonely. i miss being able to sit and share coffee and a few laughs, I miss being able to cuddle with someone on a cold night. I miss being able to have someone I can tell stuff to. I am looking for a connection. I'd prefer lovemaking to sex, but it is sometimes very hard to tell what women are really looking for... so perhaps if i just say that i prefer to see the good in each person and celebrate individual beauty that may give you some idea.

My Ideal Person Someone who has few hangups, wants to take things reasonably easy, but enjoys getting hot and heavy. Someone I can talk with. Maybe the odd movie? Coffee? Someone who will accept me as I am and looks at the whole package.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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