I apologize but I am not good at this. I have been with one female before but it was not enjoyable (she was rough and forceful). The experience was not what I was looking for. I have been daydreaming about being with a female. Hopefully I can find what my mind has been wondering about. Update: Second day on and I feel like I am in a horror movie being attacked by paranas. Men ... please be tactful. I do not mind flirting, but in a fun way. Remember we will probably never meet - I am seeking that "one" female in my daydreams. Update: Men, if you are going to contact me, please remember I am a lady, not a . If you are going to say anything put some imagination into your IMs - thank you.... Update: ladies, I have went brunette - please let me know your honest opinion (blonde or brunette).... and yes I have to go tanning - can't when prego, and have failed to the past 11 months after (yucky paleness).... Update: I am 5 months preggers!!! Can honestly say I do not look it, but I feel it and my breasts ache!!!! Know a way to reduce the achyness, please let me know .... my first 2 pregnancies did not feel this way....