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Skiing is like sex with out the orgasm!
About my blog ~ It's a place to explore human sexuality. No topic is taboo. This is a "judgment free" zone. Your comments will never be deleted by me (exceptions are rude and/or offensive comments and comments that expose privileged information)

So..... Welcome to my blog. Don't be shy. I won't bite (unless you want me to). Speak up if you have something to say. I love hearing from you!
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How long do you masterbate until you cum?
Posted:Nov 6, 2008 6:14 am
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2013 9:31 pm
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I swear I don't know how my girlfriends and I wind up in these conversations but we were talking the other day about our favorite toys and masturbating and feeling bad for men because the toys for you boys just aren't as effective as the toys for us gals. And that led us to talk about how long it takes us to orgasm. (For me that would be about 15 minutes. Unless I'm really worked up and then it could be shorter!) Anyway, I said that I think it takes men a lot longer.

So........ todays question is:

On average, how long do you masturbate before you cum or orgasm.
(Men answer in blue, Women in pink)
[font face=tempus sans itc][size 3][color blue]15 minutes or less[/font][/color][/size]
[font face=tempus sans itc][size 3][color blue]15 -30minutes[/font][/color][/size]
[font face=tempus sans itc][size 3][color blue]30-45 minutes[/font][/color][/size]
[font face=tempus sans itc][size 3][color blue]45 minutes to an hour[/font][/color][/size]
[font face=tempus sans itc][size 3][color blue]An hour or more[/font][/color][/size]
[font face=tempus sans itc][size 3][color deeppink]15 minutes or less[/font][/color][/size]
[font face=tempus sans itc][size 3][color deeppink]15 -30minutes[/font][/color][/size]
[font face=tempus sans itc][size 3][color deeppink]30-45 minutes[/font][/color][/size]
[font face=tempus sans itc][size 3][color deeppink]An hour or more[/font][/color][/size]
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Trick or Treat?
Posted:Oct 30, 2008 5:14 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2008 7:46 pm
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I think this was a trick.
The costume I purchased was supposed to be a Pirate' Wench.
I don't know.
Maybe if I added a hat and a sword.
Right now, I think I look like a cocktail waitress at a really cheesy restaurant.
What do you think?


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Virtual Divorce=Virtual Murder=Real Arrest
Posted:Oct 25, 2008 5:02 am
Last Updated:Nov 7, 2008 7:29 pm
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Just because it's virtual doesn't mean it isn't real. The fact is......... it's VERY real. I have knows several who have had their hearts broken by virtual lovers they have never met face to face. One of my relatives was divorced by his real life wife when she found out about his virtual affairs. And yesterday I read this article about woman who was arrested for virtual murder. (Okay actually she was arrested for illegally accessing a computer and manipulating electronic data)

A Japanese woman, 43, committed virtual murder after her virtual husband (yes, only in the world of the game Maple Story) virtually divorced her. Yep, in reality, it was all a simulation, as is what she did next.

Apparently she had acquired his password from one of his co-workers, so she logged into the game --- and deleted his avatar. While some might say, "so what," she's been arrested on suspicion of illegally accessing a computer and manipulating electronic data.
"I was suddenly divorced - without a word of warning. That made me so angry."

The woman lived in southern Miyazaki; the man lived 620 miles away in Sapporo. But since only in movies can we actually visit the "cyberspace scene of the crime," she had to make the trek to Sapporo. There is yet no word on if she will be officially charged. If she is, she could face up to five years in prison or a fine of more than $5,000.


So, as you enter into these virtual friendships and virtual relationships in this new era of on-line communities, beware, the side effect of this virtual world are not virtual at all!
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Resolution Update
Posted:Oct 20, 2008 6:24 pm
Last Updated:Dec 18, 2008 10:12 am
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On my 45 birthday one of my three resolutions was to run a 5 mile race on Thanksgiving Day. Even though I am in excellent physical condition from Muay Thai Kickboxing, running is an entirely different story. My first day out I attempted to run 1.5 miles.

I had to walk half of it.

I suck at running. You would think it should be such a natural, easy thing............. not for me. Anyway, I'm not one to give up easily. I've been working at it.

This past Sunday I ran my first 5K race. I ran the whole thing! I never stopped and I never walked. I was pretty slow, and close to last, but I did it! And I had fun! A special thanks to ready2go4sum who calmed my nerves before the race and cheered me on at the end (having finished significantly before me!)

Stay tuned. More running and races to come!

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Why???
Posted:Oct 17, 2008 7:06 pm
Last Updated:Nov 8, 2008 5:29 pm
34598 Views

More than half of you said you think of someone else when you are getting a blow job. I don't get it. I don't understand at all.

Why?


I could take some guesses, but I don't want to put ideas into your head. I just really want to know why you are thinking of someone else.

And is there something us women could or should be doing differently so that you are thinking of us when we are sucking your cock?

11 Comments
Who u thinkin' about........
Posted:Oct 13, 2008 4:33 pm
Last Updated:Nov 16, 2008 11:12 am
34395 Views


Someone said to me today.....
"While she was sucking my cock, I was thinking about you."
My first thought was
"that poor woman"
but my next thought was.........
"I wonder how often that happens?"

So today's poll;

In this calendar year, if you've been fortunate to have your cock sucked or your pussy eaten, did you ever think about someone other than the person you were with at the time?

Just for the record....... I have not thought about anyone else.
[font face=kristen itc][size 3] No, I haven't[/SIZE][/font]
[font face=kristen itc][size 3]Yes I have. :"> [/SIZE][/font]
5 Comments , 104 votes
Give it to me!
Posted:Oct 13, 2008 4:46 am
Last Updated:Nov 14, 2008 7:59 pm
32539 Views

Madonna and I share an attitude, a view on life and a fondness for thigh high boots!

Give it to Me~ Madonna
Got no boundaries and no limits
If there's excitement, put me in it
If it's against the law, arrest me
If you can handle it, undress me

Don't stop me now, don't need to catch my breath
I can go on and on and on
When the lights go down and there's no one left
I can go on and on and on

Give it to me, yeah
No one's gonna show me how
Give it to me, yeah
No one's gonna stop me now


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Vibrate my mind
Posted:Oct 11, 2008 8:43 pm
Last Updated:Oct 20, 2008 6:26 pm
32732 Views

For all you men who might be concerned about being replaced by the magic wand......... A friend here at Senior Sizzle reminded me that all erotic adventures (and the most incredible orgasms) begin in the mind


I just read your magic wand blog -- And I see what all that shaking was about... But I wouldn't worry about it being competition because it will never vibrate your mind... no that kind of vibration has no batteries, doesn't come with an on off switch, and always understands where your g-spot is based on the feedback. The hot and tactile feedback as well as the feedback that filters back from within your eyes.

So go ahead.......
Vibrate my mind!

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The Magic Wand
Posted:Oct 7, 2008 6:42 pm
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2008 4:38 pm
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My friend sircernunnos has long been preaching the virtues of the Hitachi Magic Wand, a high powered electric vibrator. Those of you who have been reading my blog for a while know that I frequently burn out vibrators. And usually at the most inopportune times. Sometimes I think I should design my own vibrator (but then I remember I'm not mechanically inclined)
The things I don't like about vibrators are;
1-the batteries die out quickly
2-the vibrators themselves break quickly
3-they just aren't buzzy enough sometimes

The Hitachi Magic Wand solves all those problems. So based upon the recommendation of sircernunnos and a few others, I ordered it. I couldn't wait for it to arrive. I was warned..... go easy, use a light touch and don't go for the high speed button to quickly.

Well, they were certainly right. First off, it's great on sore muscles. It is VERY high powered, even on the low setting. And the G-Spot attachment is right on!!!! So I'm playing with my new toy and life is good. I am loving it. It is giving me wonderful, multiple orgasms. And then I decide to see what happens if I hit the high power switch. Oh My Fucking G-D!!!!!!! I spontaneously squirted all over the place, like I have never before in my life squirted! And there was a lot of it! All over the bed, the sheets, the mattress pad, the mattress. It was the biggest mess I have ever made. I have always been able to stop myself from squirting. Stopping myself from squirting has become such second nature that I actually have to think about allowing it to happen. Well not this time!!!! This was so spontaneous it totally took me by surprise. They ought to sell that thing with a tarp, for cryin' out loud.

So, to all my girlfriends out there, you KNOW what I'll be getting you for Christmas this year. And guys..... make sure you get one for your gal. Or maybe not because once she's got her Hitachi..............


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Birthday Blues & Resolutions
Posted:Sep 29, 2008 8:21 pm
Last Updated:Nov 28, 2008 5:41 am
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For those of you who aren't familiar with the Jewish Holidays, tonight marks the start of Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year. It also happens to be my birthday. As we all tend to do at the start of a new year or on a birthday, I've been reflecting back on the past year and on my life as a whole. I have so much to be thankful for:
  • The love and friendship of many wonderful people
  • An amazing little boy who fills my life with love and laughter
  • Good health of myself and my loved ones
  • Enough $ to buy the things I need and some of the things I want but don't really need.
    And so many things too numerous to list here.
    So why then the birthday blues? It's not an easy question to answer, not something I can readily put my finger on. Perhaps it has something to do with being half way through my life. I'm not where I thought I would be. I'm not doing the things I thought I would be doing. But I am in a good place, a happy, healthy and strong place. So far, life's been good to me. I have no fear of the future, yet something still nags at me, lurking in the recesses of my subconscious, just out of reach.

    Aahhhh, maybe it's PMS!

    Anyway, as with any New Years I am making a resolution to do something I never thought I could do and some resolutions to improve on other aspects of my life. So, with out further ado (or whining) my resolutions:
  • I will run the local 5 Mile (NOT 5K) Thanksgiving Day Fun Run (I hate running and have never attempted anything like this before)
  • I will do a better job managing my cash flow
  • During business hours I will focus more on business and less time blogging,IM'ing, texting and e-mailing

    How about you? Don't wait until after Christmas to make your New Years Resolutions. Join me! Make at least one resolution right now. Tell me what it's going to be and let's do it together!

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    Dinner...........or Appeteasers
    Posted:Sep 23, 2008 5:20 am
    Last Updated:Nov 30, 2008 6:37 pm
    35436 Views

    We had just sat down to dinner at a local restaurant when you slid a beautifully wrapped box across the table. "Happy Birthday, Baby!" you said. I knew by the wicked grin on your face that my present was going to be something naughty. Excitedly I opened the box and was delighted to see that you had bought me a wireless remote butterfly vibrator. This was the perfect birthday present! It was not so much the vibrator itself, but rather the opportunity to fulfill a mutual fantasy that made this one of the best presents ever.

    Knowing that I had no panties under my short black dress, you asked me to go to the ladies room and put on my present. I did as I was told. When I returned to the table you informed me that I was to sit next to you instead of across from you. The waiter arrived and as I started to give him my order you turned on the vibrator, stopping me mid-sentence. I inhaled deeply and gave you that look, letting you know that I accepted you challenge....... game on! With a gleam in my eye and buzz between my legs I calmly ordered. As you started to order I placed my hand on your crotch and started to rub your cock. You glared at me letting me know that I was being naughty and I would pay for it later. Mischievously I continued to rub your cock through your pants, enjoying the feel of your cock swelling under my ministrations.

    As soon as the waiter departed you growled at me "Put your hands on the table, naughty girl. You will be punished for that." I immediately complied. You put your arm around my shoulders and grabbed a handful of my hair pulling my head back slightly. You started to whisper in my ear. Anyone passing by would think "How romantic", but only you and I knew "how naughty!!!!!!" As you started to tell me all the things you were planning for later that evening you took your free hand and started playing around the opening of my sweet spot. "You need to practice orgasming quietly" you said to me and swiftly inserted you finger right up to my g-spot. I inhaled rapidly and gave a little whimper.

    You showed no mercy as you immediately set to work rhythmically pressing against my g-spot. “You WILL give me an orgasm right here at the dinner table. And you WILL be quiet about it. If I think you are making too much noise, I will not allow you to cum all night!” I whimpered again because I knew you meant it. “That’s a good girl” you said “nice and quiet”. I whimpered again and you kept working your magic on my pussy. “I need your cock” I said as I reached my hand down to your lap. “Hands on the table” you abruptly commanded and with that you thrust your fingers hard into my pussy several times. A rather loud moan escaped my lips.

    “HANDS…….ON……….THE……….TABLE” you growled in a low voice as you switched back to massaging my g-spot. I immediately lifted my hands and buried my face in them. My breathing was getting very rapid and shallow. I knew it wasn’t going to be that much longer before I lost control and came. I moaned out loud. “People are looking at you, you naughty girl” you said. And then you pressed the butterfly vibe hard against my clit. That was all it took to send me over the edge. I bit down hard on my lip to keep from crying out. My eyes closed tight and my entire body convulsed with release. Our waiter choose that exact moment to arrive with our cocktails. I was in a world of my own as I recovered from the quietest orgasm I’d ever experienced. Our waiter didn’t say a word as he put our drinks down in front of us. If I could have opened my eyes I might have noticed his hand slightly shaking, his eyes staring at me, the questioning look he gave you or the wink you gave back to him. But I just sat there, eyes closed, trying to control my breathing, trying to recover and plotting my revenge.


    5 Comments
    Finish the story.....
    Posted:Sep 18, 2008 7:58 pm
    Last Updated:Oct 2, 2008 4:46 am
    34074 Views


    If you've been reading along with Dream time sex and the subsequent Later that daythen you know there is some unfinished business to take care of. (and if you haven't read them ?* Shame on you. Go do it right now so you can play along)

    He got his in the wee hours of the morning, and she got hers later that day but now it's time for full fledged, "bring it on" steamin' hot sex. With a twist.......... since I like the "dialog" part of my blog so much I am asking that you all contribute to the next installment. I will try to include as much of your input as possible.

    So tell me anything you'd like to see included;
    specific locations
    specific articles of clothing
    various positions or sexual acts or sexual aids
    what ever you would like to see included in the story.
    I don't promise to include it all, but if it inspires me, excites me or moves me, it will be included in the 3rd installment.

    I am SO looking forward to this writing challenge. I hope you will play along!

    Chick

    3 Comments
    Later that day.....
    Posted:Sep 16, 2008 1:14 pm
    Last Updated:Oct 7, 2008 5:49 pm
    34431 Views

    You got yours in early morning hours. It's my turn, and I want it NOW. I need you to crawl between my legs and start touching me. Move your hands all around my thighs and my pussy, but don't touch my clit. Keep teasing me until I'm begging you to touch it. Touch my clit gently with your fingers. Rub them back and forth along my slit. Gradually increase in pressure and speed till I start to squirm and moan. Roll it in between your fingers, press down and rub some more. Then let me feel the warmth of your breath. Tease me letting me know your tongue is coming next, but hold back until I start to whimper, until I need it so badly. Then surprise me by suddenly putting your mouth on me and licking my clit up and down and up and down over and over again. Flick your tongue across it. Spread my lips gently with your fingers and take my clit into your mouth and suck and bite gently. Gradually suck harder and harder while your tongue works its magic. Stop every now and then to smack my pussy a few times with your hand and immediately go back to sucking. Listen to my rapid breathing and my whimpering as I get closer and closer to orgasm. Take your finger and circle my opening until I'm squirming and pushing against you, trying to make your fingers enter me. Then slowly slide them all the way up to my g-spot where you start to tap and rub all the while still sucking my clit as I explode in multiple orgasms soaking your fingers and your face. And as I orgasm, rub harder and suck harder and fuck me with your fingers. Keep me going and don't let me stop orgasming even as I try to pull away from you. It is getting so sensitive and so intense. The orgasms keep building and getting bigger and bigger and more and more intense. I'm orgasming continuously and I'm screaming and thrashing about. Hold onto me tight, really tight and don't let me move away from you! Hold me down forcefully and don't let go. I beg you to stop, I can't take anymore, but you know I can take more and you want more orgasms from me so you keep going as I scream my head off with unending orgasms and you don't stop. You don't stop until my breathing is so fast and so shallow that I'm on the brink of passing out. Then, and only then, do you finally stop. Whew!

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