really thinking most people here are just models or other sites that want you to join. while I have tried even just chatting on and no one answers back. then when they do thay tell you they could not get a email sent because it wont let them well that's just crap. if the person don't want to meet in the first place why say you do then not both to try make arrangements or just say there not interested. it wont hurt anyones feelings to say your not interested lol this is why I wont waste my money because most are not real.