Standard Testimonies area
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Posted:Apr 24, 2010 6:02 pm
Last Updated:Sep 12, 2021 1:04 pm
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I just noticed that the site...stopped letting standard people post testimonies...
so i am making a place where those that i know and had great times with can show or share there experience....hopefully more people will follow this trend...who knows!!
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Central Cali Connections group/blog
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Posted:Aug 15, 2009 10:28 am
Last Updated:Nov 26, 2021 11:47 pm
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hello everyone,how are ya doing? I just started a group called Central Cali Connections.The purpose is just for people to talk/discuss,ask questions,answer to replies,rant and basicly get to know each other.
I have checked out groups in the area and it is all the same with personal ads of ...single person or a couple looking for this or that or blah,blah,blah...how boring!!!I see that the Modesto and Bakersfield groups are doing very well,but for us in Fresno,Tulare,Merced,Visalia,Madera,Hanford,Sanger,Selma,Reedley,and places in the surrounding area...where do we go and why cant we have a group without going 100 or so miles.
So when you get the chance join,tell us alittle about yourself...share who you are as a person in this intellectual group.I look forward to us all having fun.
Chocman26
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That Golden Rule
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Posted:May 23, 2012 9:08 am
Last Updated:Sep 16, 2021 4:25 pm
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Hello Senior Sizzle world...it is pretty day out here in sunny California...loving the weather and cant wai to take my ass to the beach/Coast soon.
I been reading a lot of profiles and receiving messages from those on here like most of us.I been seeing a ugly trend in more and more profiles and communication as of the last year and sadly enough it is RUDENESS/DISRESPECT/LACK OF RESPECT!
Now don't get me wrong,cause i have fell prey to that too( rarely),but will send an apology message,if i was wrong.I understand we all get feed up with the liars,flakes and those on here that act like celebrities...hahahaha
But i just want to remind myself and all of you that we don't have to be rude to each other...we all live in a world were we get enough of it from strangers,work,friends and family...and in a place like this where people are just wanting fun...there is no real place for it.
Personally those that i have met,know me to be very kind,humorous and very respectful(check my testimonials for proof) and that i will go out my way to go the extra mile to help someone with either sending cards to the person,if they are going through a bad time or even something as simple as an inspirational call or text to uplift a persons spirit or just to make someone laugh with an onslaught of jokes.
In conclusion everyone...Lets try to be kind towards each others...because..well MEAN PEOPLE SUCK!!!
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Exclusive
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Posted:May 15, 2012 1:30 am
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 5:49 pm
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This is actually pretty personal as hell to me,cause for some reason since 2010...i keep on getting requests to be in a exclusive play/sexual relationship...and i got to throw this in there real quick,if i do agree to be in an exclusive thing...I AM NOT YOUR BOYFRIEND...unless we discuss it and your a single woman thats open to serious!!!
Now first off I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH BEING EXCLUSIVE...actually i have done it 3-4 times with those on here...no problem and i can actually understand why the reasons and i would love to be in one too...kinda. This can work and also it can be just a fantasy.
This really only works if 2 single people are playing and decides to do this...one on one...no problem and i actually know 4 people who did this and are NOW married and have a very beautiful relationship.
Another way it works is a couple with another couple (not plural people). This again is a great way to be exclusive the 2 couples can switch partners or have a ffm or mfmfm or mmf...no harm...no foul...even Steven!!
Now lets discuss Reality and how it will NEVER work...
The couple and a single man or a single woman...MOST couples are delusional in thinking it will work...it wont.For example i tried this with the lady of a couple and it was fucking great for a couple months,till it became harder for us to get together...even though her hubby had no participation at all. and after a while...the single person will start thinking..."damn why can i get exclusivity too" or "damn i don't want to fuck him,right after he fucked his wife" or "damn i don't want sloppy seconds"!
So not only are the single people wondering about this,but also time...if i am in the mood...i don't want to wait to hear some shit on why she cant that has to do with the hubby or wifey...shit might as well get a actual boyfriend or girlfriend.I know alot of couple ask singles for this and if it work...cool,but just giving the couples a little insight from a single person.
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Communication Venting
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Posted:May 15, 2012 1:01 am
Last Updated:May 1, 2019 11:41 pm
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Why O Why...cant people communicate...is it cause you might....just might like someone more than you think...yeesh.I can understand being so-so about someone,but seriously come on now.Now i am only talking about those that have sent you a flirt or continually views your profile and hotlist....I never can understand why the shyness.
So i must say it and get it out the way..if i get attention from a lady or couple,if i am actually interested in her...i will send a email message..nothing sexual or derogatory just an introduction...now if i dont get one back...i might send another with in weeks or a month...and nothing back again...i will cease to send another message..not cause i am turned off,but because i feel that the lady isnt real or playing games or slow minded or too shy/scared i guess.I used to say...well maybe she doesnt have time or too busy....but in a month..get real.Just venting!!!
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Who do i email and why???
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Posted:May 15, 2012 12:47 am
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 5:49 pm
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We all get those alerts or who viewed or winked or hotlisted and i too get my fair share of them,but with most i do not email and here is the reasons..in case someone is wondering.
First off I usually email those that are into
Interracial play or relationships...especially those are within 200 miles of my location or 4 hour drive.I understand many people arent open to it and thats okay...go back to your little caves and enjoy life in ignorant bliss,but for those that i am talking about that are open to black gentleman this is a reason why i might email you and lets not get it twisted i send messages to black women as well...i am an equal opportunity lover 
Those that have been on the site and are active as in photos,videos and most important..REAL testimonials( get back to that later),,,no need to explain on this.
Usually i go to my network and see those that are in the similar or recommended area section and go from there.
Last but not least gold and silver members,cause they are serious about meeting( why would they pay,if they wasnt),plus they can view my entire profile and arent asking..is he real or ask me have i met anyone on the site..especially after letting them know that i been on here on and off for years( 2007...i think).
These are not the only ones that i am into,i have emailed others but have more luck with the ladies above.
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Just...not...me!!!
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Posted:May 15, 2012 12:22 am
Last Updated:Jun 25, 2021 8:53 pm
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Everyone has things that there want OR open to OR iffy about and etc...
With me,i am an open minded guy and have grown due to being on this site...alot of changes i must say and some i wont change on like the following things just to put it out there i am Strictly NO on.
1. No pics...i wont meet someone that cannot send a photo or doesnt have one in their profile.
2.No guys...i dont know how many guys or trannies keep emailing me on this...sorry i will NEVER fuck or get fucked by some guy!
3.No gangbangs...i will not participate in them for many reasons.like waiting to be in line is weird to me...it would be different if i was waiting in line at the DMV or a bank or Grocery store...then i can understand.Another reason is who the fuck says that these other guys are clean..i get tested and have free med benefits at my job...these are just a few for examples.
4.This i am mostly no on..I will not travel past 50 miles AND have to get a room...are you serious...get out of here with that shit...it is my ass driving 3,4,5, hours,tired as shit and have to get a room and not sure if i will even enjoy myself...ninja please...but i will break this rule extremely rarely,but never for a couple.
5.I wont play with a woman that doesnt have a job...again i will bring up...medical benefits and getting checked...we are adults..be smart about it people...seriously!
There are more...i think,but these are my main ones
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Fantasy vs Reality Vent
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Posted:May 15, 2012 12:06 am
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 5:49 pm
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Wow...i haven't written anything in a while...now feeling the writing bug gnawing on my ankle once again...hahaha.
This blog is one that has been irking me,while being approached or while reading peoples profiles.I know alot of us are on here and we love to have sex..who doesnt?? But lately i see alot of people mixing up real life and fantasy ideals.
I realize that most of us want to have a fantasy and nothing wrong with that,but for examples i have and keep getting endless messages to be apart of a gang bang or mmmf and more damn M's...and the same ladies arent open to mf...give me a break..come on with that shit...are you really telling me that YOU are sooo amazing that you really have grops of guys waiting in line like a grocery store begging to have sex with you AND that you always have sex like that...which i have had most all lie and say YES...which is a lie and i always thought that we as adult stopped watch Mr.Rodgers and the land of make believe...hahaha.
This does seem strange...dont it,now if said person said i like to have groups of guys,when i can but mostly dont then maybe i would say..okay..she is keeping it real.
Hell i would love to have my fantasy of models with c-cups/d-cups,flat stomachs and squirters,1 of each race...on the daily...but once i passed the age of being a and found out that the Easter bunny and Santa wasnt real...i knew i was in for some crazy shit as an adult and not everything was going to be the way that i wanted it to be.
I am just doing a small vent...but people realize whats reality and fantasy!!!
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Manning up!
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Posted:Nov 14, 2011 8:11 pm
Last Updated:Jun 25, 2021 8:54 pm
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Lets jump into this quickly...in 2010,i decided to travel to meet some ladies...ALL of you were absolutely wonderful and great woman.So of course in the very beginning of 2011,i decided to go for it again with messages to other ladies and couples.Which i intended to meet/play with.
Well that plan went totally awry for many reasons,for example ,I had many deaths in my family,which took me out of the mindset of playing,got in to a car accident,which took me a while to heal from,then afterwards some ass hole dented up the back end of my car,then my mothers car got totally destroyed( gotta get her another car...grrr) and lastly i was in a bad altercation with the police,which i was attacked by police officers...long story,so to say this is one hell of a year is an understatement!
I know none of this has anything to do with any of you,but i just want to send luv and apologizes to those that i said that i was going to TRY to meet up with. I am just glad that it wasn't a flake move,but more of a serious delay of plans....at the moment i am still single as hell and just playing things by ear...so tot those In the Bay and Los Angeles and San Diego areas...I HUMBLY APOLOGIZE TO YOU and if i am not dating or in any type of committed or exclusive relationship...I will get back to making plans!!
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Central Valley
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Posted:Nov 14, 2011 7:16 pm
Last Updated:Jun 25, 2021 8:54 pm
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Hello Senior Sizzle people...i hope it is all going great fro everyone...seriously speaking.
I been getting a lots of mail asking,why don't i have hook ups( much ) in the central valley(from Bakersfield to Modesto,ca???
1.We many people outside of the ares are intelligent enough to be racially open minded..not to say this is a big racist place,but...at times it really can be...now i am in no way crying about it...naw,it doesn't trip me up or anything,just one of those things one has to deal with..oh well bigotry and ignorance is everywhere!
2. Drug issues...sorry to say,but as of November 2,3,4, (one of those days) it was reported (in the news)that there is a rapid heroin epidemic going on out here and there is already a huge meth problem in the valley..so i ask you...why would i be intimate with a tweeker or dope fiend???
3.The Fakeness...now i swear that it isnt just on here...BUT,i have played with ladies in La and Bay Area and NEVER had a issue..go figure.I wont post names,but there are alot of REAL WOMEN in the area,but dont want to meet or too scared to meet or playing little games,which is sad...boo-hoo.Now i am not pertaining to those that dont reply to a email,i am only speaking about those that you and i literally chat with or text or talk with.
4.The Clicks/Rumors...now before someone jumps down my throat on this...let me say there is nothing wrong with making and being friends with people on here.I am speaking to the weak-minded ones which is nearly ALL of them. I am going to give a perfect example..there is a couple on here and other places that i went to play with after meeting them,even though i was feeling iffy about it,but felt oh well lets just see...well to make a long story short,it didnt work out that well( just wasnt feeling the lady attitude),now with them being in groups or click better word,they have spread lies and bullshit on me to there "friends" and they spread there hear say on and on...basicly saying,if you dont know the person outside of hearsay,then why believe it and the things being said were and are lies...like i am gay or i am alittle over 5 foot or over weight in real life and lastly i was or am not a black guy...WTF!!!
Now there are more reasons,but these are more than enough to post and personally,i am just me...those that actually know me...i am a good person with a great heart ..oh and with a 9.5 BBC,hahahaha!!!
Now this post doesnt refer to everyone,just a select few,and if your in the area and think it pertains to you,be adult enough to just ask in a email message...and i will let you know!!
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Showing Love part 2
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Posted:Mar 23, 2011 7:16 am
Last Updated:Jun 25, 2021 8:55 pm
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This blog is very late...but for some off brand reason this year has been more than difficult for me...from many deaths in my family and close friends and car problems out the wazoo!!!
2 Years ago i made the showing love to some awesome FRIENDS,but this is for those EXCEPTIONAL women/friends that i met in 2010.These ladies i value alot and still have a great connection with.Now with those that are named/listed below.Not mentioning couples this time.Please dont get butt hurt if your not listed..it just means that we arent that close in our friendship.
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Venus Love 2010...You go to the top of my list as my favorite friend that i met.I love our talks and how we are getting to know each other and the closeness that we share...you are easily someone that i adore highly and could be in a relationship with ,you are truly an awesome woman.There aren't enough words to say about how special you are to me!!!
Toomuch662...We had alot of awesome times together and even though your no longer on this site.I will always consider you an great friend that i love spending time with! Now this lady literally ALMOST took me off this site...funny how sometimes you meet someone and it becomes more than what either of us were looking for-lol
Jessicrabbit...I wasn't sure if i should add you on here,ONLY because we met this year( 2011),but so far we are having a blast with each other and i always look forward to spending time with you,when we do get together and i will continue to cherish the time that we have...xoxo!
Akarma38...You are simply great as a friend,lover and of course i appreciate all that you do in our group...thats why i had to make you my moderator,cause you have stepped up more than anyone else...Thank you very much!!
Steamyasain...Keep it real...doesnt the video that we made/posted say everything that needs to be said....as a couple you 2 are great and i want to say thank you to the male half for allowing her and i to get together and i look forward to having fun with her again as soon as i take my ass back to the Bay Area.
Ciaobella 69...This woman is hands down overflowing with beauty,kindness and she is a total sweetheart.Nervousness got the better half of me ,when we met,but next time will be a very different store...see you soon...xoxo!!
Prettybrownchicc....I was soo glad that we met..even though we got into some legal trouble on our way to meet( crazy how that happened),but i had a great time with you and very happy to see one of our SISTAS thats not about b.s.or games.i cant wait to see you again...but this time lets see if we can get together with out getting speeding tickets-lol.
Bootilicious1...wow,wow,wow...you are an absolute blast to know and be with and though we havent talked much,we are still friends and i am proud to know you...being with you is simple fabulous.
MsKitty11...Simply a lovely and kind and sweet woman and a great friend to know...xoxo.
Weterika65...we gotta hangout again sometime,when we get a chance...all smiles!
Katkisses69..
When it comes to couples...even though i did mention steamyasain...wow again( sorry)...i feel it is important to send a special love to....
Coupleforfun3831...One of the best couples that i have met...both of them are in a league of their own..awesome!!!
Free2playall...i always enjoy our time together!!! Another awesome couple.
There are those that i hope to meet and that we have talked with this year 2011.Be patient please and i will be looking forward to us having fun together.
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Guarantee...???
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Posted:Nov 15, 2010 10:47 pm
Last Updated:Jun 25, 2021 8:56 pm
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I am just bored outta my mind and i am looking at places on here( A.F.F.) and noticing things that concern me...like the 3 month guarantee.
Now i really dont get this...the site says/claims that after 3 months of being a gold member and you don't get laid,it or they will give you a 3 gold month extension...unless i got it wrong.
Now how would the administrators or customer service reps. on a.f.f. know that i had sex with some one or not?
Are they watching me and seeing if i going to some ladies house or getting a hotel room 
What if some one signed up on here and just had a horrible attitude that turns everyone else off??
What if someone was just butt fucking ugly and couldn't get any on here???
Just wondering...and if someone actually did contact the customer service reps. about this...isn't or wouldn't that just too embarrassing/funny???
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Membership Trails....
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Posted:Nov 15, 2010 10:28 pm
Last Updated:Jun 25, 2021 8:56 pm
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Hey everyone...some of you have noticed that i was seeing how it is/was being a standard member versus and silver...and being a silver versus being a gold member...and being a gold member versus a gold v.i.p....yet i am going back to gold very soon.
So far being a standard member sucks ass big time...cant see much of anything( photos,profiles or videos)....being a silver member is okay...lets you see the profiles and 5 photos and videos...so it is a little better plus it is only 20 dollars...so hey no complaints.
Gold is obliviously much better for the 30 dollars,it is worth is( sorta,but then to add insult to injury...you almost have to purchase the damn standard contacts feature.Since most people are just standard...yeesh!!!
The V.I.P. is hmmm...use less to me,unless you really want to start sending flowers to everyone...yippee or just want that extra yellow/gold line,but then again it makes me think that if i choose this..isn't it saying that i am a very important horny muthafucka that most of you don't know...hmmm!!!!
Now alot of us have tried different memberships...what is your membership status and why?? Do you feel that the v.i.p. status is really important? Shouldn't the standard contacts be free to Gold or silver members,since we are paying for the damn site??What are your thoughts?
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