P's Fantasy
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Posted:Sep 18, 2013 4:26 am
Last Updated:May 25, 2024 6:43 pm
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When we are soaking in the hot tub, something we try to do every night, P and I talk. She has opened up on some of the fantasies she has, and today we are going to share one.
P has said she likes the idea of finding a couple where 'all bets are off' so to speak. She said that once she gets to the point where she can completely trust the folks, more things will happen.
She admitted she likes the idea of finding folks for the long term, She said she would like to know that the folks we are with are trustworthy, dependable and honest.
She talked about her 'ideal people'. She wants to meet folks who are kind, gentle, relaxed, clean, discrete with a touch of a kinky streak! She also talked about the fact she wouldn't mind if they were able to go from being a touch submissive to a touch dominant and back.
We talked about the idea of a 'focused' playtime, i.e. where one fo the group gets the focused attention from the others. This really gets her going.
When I asked, she said she could see herself in either role, as the one being focused on or as part of the group doing the focusing. She also admitted that is why she said she has enjoyed the adventures we have had - they have been almost as she has described.
I like the time in the hot tub. We talk alot about life in general, and it helps us maintain a great connection. So I ask, what do you like to do to maintain you connection and help with your communication with your partner?
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Meeting Folks
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Posted:Sep 17, 2013 6:22 am
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2013 10:31 am
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We want to believe we are outgoing and friendly people, and try to act accordingly. We enjoy meeting people, and we find everyone has a story to tell, and usually have a very 'interesting' adventures to relate as well!
We like to 'date' folks. We like to get to know them, and see if the chemistry is there.
One of our favorite places to go is to sports bars, and locally we have a few great ones. While the noise level can sometimes be a touch high, we are also able to usually 'squeeze in' some conversations that might make us look 'guilty' when the server is close by!
We are not much for the high end places, we are more jeans and khakis kinda people. Problem is, we enjoy good bar-b-que and we all know that can be a touch messy!
So the questions we have are these:
Do you like to 'date' as well?
Where do you like to go?
What do you do when a date goes 'bad'?
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Defining 'Attraction'
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Posted:Sep 16, 2013 3:43 am
Last Updated:May 25, 2024 6:43 pm
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We have had many conversations over the last year on the type of people we are seeking. It basically was a way for us to define what attracts us to certain people, while finding others not for us.
What became our top 'criteria' (in no particular order) came down to these:
Personality, cleanliness, discretion, physical attributes, non smokers (this is an absolute!!) and, the elusive 'click'.
So what it really came down to is this: Non smoking, nice, discreet, personable people that we find attractive, find us attractive, that all four agree upon. Sounds easy, right?
To us, this has been harder than dating, getting all four to find the 'click'. It seems that either one of us doesn't get it, we both don't get it, or vice versa with the other couple.
It has been slightly easier with single folks. We have had the click there twice -once with a single guy, and with a single lady. (BTW, married guys who are playing without their wives, well, that is an immediate turn off. It you can't be honest with the person you are married to, why would we think you will be honest with us? And before you hit us with the 'my situation is unique' line - which we have been given - we aren't buying it!)
So what defines the attraction for you? Is it a specific physical characteristic? Personality? A 'really cool' car? (LOL.....ok, back in high school for a moment!)
We will share this: P has said - Guys, if you are an identical match to "McGarret on Hawaii 5-0" and have a great personality, you are in. period! She has also said if you are a ringer for Angie Harmon.....LOL.....
We look forward to hearing what attracts people? Who knows, while we may not by your ideal match, we may not someone who is!
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What we don't quite get....
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Posted:Sep 15, 2013 4:38 am
Last Updated:Sep 17, 2013 1:17 am
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Lately we have had a number of people checking out our profile every day. A few have even sent flirts, and most are gold members (which we are not). No emails.
Then, we seem them on IM, send an IM, and get no response. So we figure they may be away from the computer, and try again in a bit, or the next time we see them on.
Or, as happened the other day, a decline. Then the next day back looking at the profile???
We don't quite understand this. When we click on a profile, and like the profile, we want to get to know people. If we go back repeatedly, we are interested. If we are on IM, and get someone contacts us, we respond - no matter what (have 'missed a few' when we are either chatting or away from the computer!~ Have gotten better when walking away about turning off the IM!)
So the search for nice, decent normal folks continues. We know that somewhere, someplace these people are hiding, and hopefully some day we will find them!
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The 'Junk' Pics
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Posted:Sep 14, 2013 8:29 am
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2013 2:47 pm
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We were lurking around the other day, and P said to me "What's up with all the junk pics?" Since we are more likely to want to meet people with personality, she is much more interested in eyes and what guys have to say.
I am truly at a loss - now before anyone throws the comment about 'this is a sex site' up, we know that.
We also know there are people who only are lookig for the biggest they can find, and again, they would definately be interested is the pics.
Just not for us - actually kinda turns her off. We have always said we have to like anyone we are going to play with, and this (to her) isn't the way to meet! "Hi - this is my junk. I have nothing else to offer but this......" LOL.....
to be fair, we have also seen a number of pics of 'ladybits' as well. Again, we would rather see the eyes and the personality that goes with it!
We wonder if there are more folks like us, or prefer to see the junk???
And for those that are interested, here is a pic of mine!
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Stood Up!
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Posted:Sep 13, 2013 5:11 am
Last Updated:Sep 14, 2013 6:42 am
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We had a first this week - we got stood up! Never happened to us before, as we usually email and chat enough prior (at least we think we do) to determine interest.
This was supposedly a single guy, meeting the hubby in order to determine the interest level for play. We have a 'process' where single guys have to sit down and have a 'beverage' with him first before getting to meet her. He gets a chance to talk, knows what she likes, and set the 'rules' we play by.
I'm (hubby) where I am supposed to be 5 min early, when a text comes in that he is not coming. Seriously? 5 min? A few hours earleir we had emailed back and forth and confirmed the details. He 'forgot' he had a coming in. Hubby is self employed, and we know the issues of dealing with . But to forget?
But this leads to the question: Why do people play the games here? Did he get some 'thrill' knowing he had wasted our time? Or, as the wife thinks, he is married and knew we would figure it out?
We taked about if we wanted to reschedule with him, and she was a definate no. His loss!
So the search continues. Never thought it would be this difficult to find a nice, decent single guy who wants to play every so often!
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Our First Adventure
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Posted:Sep 12, 2013 4:58 am
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2014 12:14 pm
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We had been lurking and talking about adventures for quite some time. We had been on a few 'dates', but nothing seemed to be working out. P was always a little hesitant, she wasn't clicking with the people we were meeting. I wasn't either.
She was out of town for a few days, and we were emailing back and forth. I had an erotic dream about an mfm adventure, and I sent it to her. She emailed back how hot it was. I asked her if this was a go, and she said 'sure'.
I went to 'work'. I found a really great guy, met with him (almost like an interview) and set up the details. P new nothing of this, but she knew I was planning something.
One morning she opened her email and found this from me: "Tonight after dinner you are to get ready. You are to wear a dress, with nothing underneath. Be ready to leave at 6:30." She sent a message asking "Is this for real?" When I replied affirmative, she simply said "OK".
She was quiet during dinner, then went and took a shower. She came down ready to go at 6:25PM, looking amazing in a simple dress with a zipper all the way up the back.
We got into the car, and I asked her is she was ready. She smiled and nodded yes. I had her recline the seat, and placed a blindfold over her eyes. We drove for the next half hour, with my hand up her dress gently stroking her, increasing her obvious arousal.
We arrived at our destination, and drove right into the garage. Our friend was waiting, and as I turned off the car the door went down. I walked P into the house, which he had prepared according to our agreement. We had also agreed to communicate without speaking, by using hand signals. I noticed he had placed a pad and pen on the coffee table as well.
There were scented candles burning, and soft jazz playing. I stopped her just shy of the family room, had her stand still, kissed had and slowly unzipped her dress. Her dress fell to the floor, and she was standing naked wearing a blindfold and a necklace. His eyes went wide, and a huge smile hit his face.
I led her to the sofa, sitting her down onto the soft comforter he had put there. I sat on one side, him on the other. We had both agreed on how things were to happen, and events were unfolding.
Our hands were stroking her everywhere, and she was responding. I could feel slight trembles as four hands caressed her. I felt her relax, and I could tell she was really enjoying the attention.
Her nipples were standing straight out, and we both took advantage, sucking them into our mouths. Her back arched with the new sensations. My hand now was between her legs, gently rubbing her. She was slick with desire, her breathing was starting to change and a flush was spreading across her chest.
I motioned to our friend, and he slid to the floor, kissing his way up her legs. He started on one at the knee, and when he got close he went back to the other and did the same. P was kissing me deeply, and I could feel her excitement in her kiss.
When his lips and tongue touched her dripping sex, she jumped a touch. I watched and played with her nipples while his tongue slowly dipped into her. Her back arched, she opened her legs even more.
For the next hour he was between her legs, kissing, licking, sucking. Every so often he would use his fingers, just to 'change it up'. P had orgasm after orgasm. I was trying to 'keep track', but I wasn't sure if she had 2 in a row or one long one at one point!
I continued to kiss and caress her. She reached her hand into my shorts, finding a very hard cock. She stroked and stroked, and I knew every time she came because she would either stop or squeeze a touch!
While all this was happening, I had taken our camera out of my pocket and took a few pictures, P said later she thought she saw a flash now and then, but was too far gone to care!
She asked for a break, and he got her a bottle of water. She took a few sips, laying back on the sofa, completely comfortable blindfolded laying naked.
She then announced she wanted to 'do more'. I looked at our friend, fully expecting him to be rock hard and ready to go. He wasn't. My look was one of complete surprise. He indicated he had jerked off. I mouthed 'When?' He held up 6 fingers. He then mouthed sorry.
This was a definite 'twist' I hadn't planned on. I made a quick decision. I instructed him to lay on the floor, on his back with his head by the couch. I stood her up, had her place her feet on either side of his head, and lower her down until she was straddling his face. I could hear the sounds of him lapping at her sex, and saw her moving her hips slowly.
I slid back in front of her, shorts down. She reached out, and found a very hard cock in her face. She then went into overdrive, giving me probably the best blowjob I have ever received.
I would like to say it lasted a long time, but she had been stroking me for over an hour, and I was ready. After she came twice more while riding his face, I came. Hard. And a lot. She didn't miss a drop.
As soon as I pulled away, she moved and he slid out from underneath her. She then spoke, directly to him. "What about you? You have made me come so many times, I want to do something for you." To know P, she can be shy. Not at this time, she was ready, and she wanted more.
He told her "Thanks, but I'm good. I really enjoyed this, just as it is." She questioned him a little bit more, he insisted he was good. She then turned towards where I was and simply said "I'm done. Take me home."
I stood her up, helped her back into her dress, and back towards the car. Our friend had a huge smile on his face. He said to her "Thank you. You are an amazing lady, very sexy and beautiful. I was honored to be a part of this." The smile on her face was huge. She just nodded.
Back in the car we drove in silence for a few minutes, and then she asked to take off the blindfold. She didn't say much for most of the ride home. We got home, and she still hadn't said much. I was a touched concerned.
My concerns vanished when we got to bed. She attacked me. She came twice more from fingers and tongue, then rode me to one more.
She curled up on me, and thanked me for the most erotic night she ever had! We talked a little more. She told me she had orgasmed 10+ times with our friend, and now another 3 more!
I asked if she would want to do something like this again, she smiled and said emphatically 'YES'!
She then informed me she didn't know how, but she was going to find the 'perfect lady' and 'blow my doors off'. She did, and that is another story!
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Pet Peeve
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Posted:Sep 11, 2013 2:43 am
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2013 5:20 am
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When we made the decision to look into the lifestyle, all we heard about was the level of respect and courtesy extended. Well, to be honest, that seems to be the exception and not the rule.
We know we are not the folks for everyone, and that's fine with us. We respond to every contact, even if it is a 'no thanks, we don't believe we are a match at this time' and would appreciate folks doing the same. Amazing how many folks don't, and just avoid the contact.
Another item that we find strange: We have folks visiting our profile daily - daily - yet never leave a message or do not respond to an IM request. Any idea why is that?? Why stop by every day then ignore us when we try to chat???
Here's what we believe: While we may not be the 'Love Connection' for you, someone we know may be perfect for you (and vice versa).
We also enjoy just hanging out with like minded folks on occasion, like we share a 'big secret' that just adds spice to the evening!
And the things we learn from just chatting with people - people have had amazing experiences and wonderful stories to share.
We have been told (from listening to Mike and Hollie) that there is a place for everyone in this lifestyle, and that people in the lifestyle are the most open and honest there are. From the people we have met, this is absolutely true. We have met wonderful people, laughed more than we thought possible, and have made great friendships.
Live, laugh, love. Treat people like you want to be treated. And, try not to be too surprised when the folks you 'wrote off' turn out to be fantastic people - that that has happened to us!
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Adventures Await!
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Posted:Sep 10, 2013 4:19 am
Last Updated:Sep 14, 2013 8:30 am
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It has been some time since our journey to adventures started, and we are enjoying the ride! We don't jump quickly into things, but prefer to take our time. Gettting to know folks who are liked minded is half the fun, and we look forward to the time we find people we connect with. It has happened in the past, and we look forward to the future!
Now we know we aren't for everyone, nor is everyone for us. We are good with that. We try to extend common courtesty and respect, and hope it is extended to us.
many people as what we 'want', like we are ordering from a menu. Well, to be honest we are open to ideas and adventures, just not of the illegal, dangerous or potential discoverable type. We are both highly visable professionals, and discretion is essential to us.
We have enjoyed a mfm, and would like to explore this further. We have constantly amazed by the lack of class shown by a few of the single guys. She is not interested is seeing your junk! Rude comments, or just plain disrespect will get you absolutely nowhere. We are more interested in how you may fit into the play, what your ideas are, and your personality. In order to get us naked we have to like and trust you. Married guys without your spouse? Forget it. We aren't going there.
We had multiple ffm (same lady) and are open to more exploration here as well. She has kissed and touched a lady. She is hesitant to go further, however, with the right person right time she has said 'who knows???' Our ladyfriend has asked us to help with a fantasy, and we are working things out on the details.
Now we are seeking a couple where all 4 click. We know what we want, decent nice people. Not movie stars, and definately no fakes and phonies, Just real decent folks. Unfortunately, he cannot tolerate smokers. Even the smell on clothing. So, no smokers - not even the ones tht say I only smoke a few a day/week, it is still too much for him.
We like the idea of all 4 together, and going from there. We expect laughter, ackwardness (at first) and we hope a lot of fun. Got a fantasy you want to try? We may be open. Fetish? Possibly - depends. We are willing to discuss things, and then who knows?
So let's talk - open a dialogue. At the worst we find out we are better off as friends, and at the best we find out we are ideal for each other!
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