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What's going through my mind
 
Some of my experiences and thoughts
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Do you know how to keep a secret?
Posted:Apr 2, 2014 4:56 am
Last Updated:Nov 15, 2021 12:53 pm
9309 Views

I do. That's why I am totally discreet. I respect other peoples wishes to remain completely anonymous, why doesn't everyone else feel this way?
0 Comments
New Years Eve
Posted:Dec 30, 2013 6:25 pm
Last Updated:Jun 17, 2015 3:53 am
10086 Views

So, what does everyone have planned??
Thinking of ringing in the new year with a bang?
0 Comments
Why Judge a Book by the Cover without reading the chapters?
Posted:Dec 16, 2013 6:16 am
Last Updated:Oct 24, 2015 4:26 am
10578 Views

I have been on the site for about 7 years. Over that time I have met some awesome people, but there have also been many that voiced their opinion without knowing the facts. I am not here to see how many people I can lure into bed, do lewd acts with, or use to my advantage without regard for their well being. I am in a 99% sex free relationship with a woman who I thought I loved, but over the past 20 years it has turned into a bitter friendship at most. You ask why I have stayed in that situation, and the answer is simple... I took wedding vows till death do us part, and I wont break up my sons family just for my mere happiness. Aside from that it is a lot cheaper to keep her than to leave her in the state that I reside in. Even when things were good between us, the sex was just OK vanilla sex without anything to write home about. I've known all my life that my sex drive is very high and have had many partners with whom I've experienced great times with. I can tell you (not to sound like I am bragging) it is not me with the issues. I go the extra mile to make my lover aroused and feeling content, but I also expect some reciprocation. It is not a One Way Street. I am an extremely dominant lover as long as I can remember and never forced my lifestyle upon her, but I have had several lovers that have reaped the benefits. This is just what I enjoy in the bedroom, but if the right match came along that wasn't extremely submissive I can also be a tender, caring lover as well. I am just a normal human being with normal everyday needs. I am not everyone to agree with my logic, I am just asking you to put yourself in my shoes and DON'T JUDGE THE BOOK by the COVER.
1 comment
Fantasies
Posted:Oct 14, 2013 6:41 pm
Last Updated:Oct 24, 2015 4:26 am
11125 Views

What is your kinkiest fantasy, and would you actually carry it out?
0 Comments
I don't -- do you???
Posted:Jul 23, 2013 5:23 am
Last Updated:Jul 23, 2013 5:26 am
11637 Views
Ladies, ever get this reaction?

0 Comments
Discreet Affair
Posted:Jul 3, 2013 6:30 pm
Last Updated:Jun 17, 2015 3:56 am
12773 Views

Would you have an affair with a married man???
What is your marital status as well.
YES
NO
MAYBE
THE THOUGHT HAS COME ACROSS MY MIND
AFRAID OF THE CONSEQUENCES
PRESENTLY LOOKING FOR A PLAYMATE
4 Comments , 20 votes
Am I the wrong one?
Posted:Jun 4, 2013 5:07 am
Last Updated:Feb 7, 2016 5:22 am
12315 Views

I have been chatting with a friend on here for over 6 months. We have exchanged countless emails, pictures, and naughty erotica back and forth. We have had several phone conversations as well as chatting with each other on cam.the both of us shared our inner most secrets and fantasies with each other, telling each other about what turns us on the most.
We had both chatted as to what we would do to each other when we finally meet. The time has finally arrived and we decided that this is the perfect time to make all our thoughts and dreams come true.
I arranged for us to meet each other down by the shore at a quiet lounge conveniently located in a fancy hotel.
I was so excited about our get together that I went an hour earlier and booked the room. I went upstairs to freshen up, and arrange the room with candles, rose petals, and fill the whirlpool tub to avoid waiting for that later on.
I then went back down to the lounge and awaited for my friend to join me.
It was only 6pm and we decided to meet at 7, so I had a cocktail while I was waiting for her to join me.
Well, one cocktail turned into 3... and it was now 7:30.
As I sat at the bar waiting, some woman sat down next to me and we started chatting. From the sound of how she was speaking, she seemed like she was pretty intoxicated and acting very weird.
I am a friendly person and I tried very hard to keep up my end of the conversation. She was asking alot of questions, personal and sexual. I told her sorry, but I was waiting for someone and that really isnt any of her business.
She kept talking to me, and I would never be so rude and leave, but I had to get away and excuse myself.
Now it is 8:00 and I am standing outside having a smoke hoping to catch a glimpse of my lover to arrive. I looked at the time and once again, and now it was 8:15 and presume I was stood up.
I go back inside to have another cocktail before leaving and calling it a night. I sat at the other end of the bar, and that same woman came and sat down next to me once again.
She was rambling on and on, then finally said to me "I know that you got a room for us, lets not waste any more time and go do what we both came here for"
WHAT???
She never introduced herself when she sat by me at the bar the first time, she looked nothing like any of the pics that she had sent me. Her attitude and the way she carried herself was a complete turn-off to me.
I told her I was sorry but this wasnt what I was expecting, and that we can remain online friends, but I had no thoughts of her in a FWB situation. She appeared totally different than what I expected, she just wasnt my type.
Am I wrong in telling her the truth and being totally honest from the get-go???
I was extremely horny thinking of our past conversations, but I just couldn't do something for the sake of just "Doing it"
I guess this was a lesson learned, not to be forgotten very quickly.
1 comment
Group Sex
Posted:Feb 24, 2013 6:46 am
Last Updated:May 22, 2016 4:03 am
14063 Views

What are your feelings and thoughts on this topic?
Always in my fantasies, but would never do this
Something I am seriously thinking about
No way
The worst sexual experience I've had
The Best sexual experience I've had
I'm a veteran of this
Maybe if I was drunk
Would do it with a stranger, but not my spouse
2 Comments , 11 votes
Perpetually Horny
Posted:Jan 11, 2013 10:14 am
Last Updated:Dec 11, 2013 10:07 am
13648 Views

Is it just me?? Do you go to sleep thinking of sex, wake up just as horny, go to work -- see someone and you start to fantasize about them, sneak around with your FWB during a daytime break, come on here and get aroused looking at some other members?
How often do you think about some sort of sexual activity?
Do you act on your impulses?
Are you perpetually horny????
0 Comments
Good vs Badddd
Posted:Oct 10, 2012 10:03 am
Last Updated:Nov 21, 2012 11:12 am
14211 Views
So, which one are you?????

0 Comments
How do you roll?????
Posted:Oct 10, 2012 4:10 am
Last Updated:Oct 10, 2012 5:14 am
14270 Views
Swallow or Spit???

0 Comments
How about we add captions to this picture
Posted:Oct 3, 2012 8:58 am
Last Updated:Oct 3, 2012 9:01 am
14298 Views
Men write what the guy is telling the woman.
Women write what is on this girls mind.

0 Comments
Let's play fill in the blanks
Posted:Oct 2, 2012 9:48 am
Last Updated:Oct 10, 2012 4:12 am
14487 Views
0 Comments

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