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notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
2/19/2019 5:34 am

should always use a condom, have heard of too many people having STD problems


ican2plzyourpud 58M

2/19/2019 6:15 am

keep it covered and enjoy


Smoker728 32M

2/19/2019 8:09 am

It better to play it safe and use protection at all cost.


forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
2/19/2019 9:26 am

Safety first is critical. Doesn't matter whether the topic is spiritual, sexual, emotional, or physical. I'm in healthcare and I see the consequences of being in a hurry. If trust builds over time, you can begin to lower your defenses. Don't be in a rush.

Welcome to the blogs.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


Rdy2meet2day34 56M
26 posts
2/19/2019 10:38 am

Meet for lunch first and go from there. Always use protection


Owatalife 67M
1711 posts
2/19/2019 8:26 pm

Obviously there is no way to know if someone you have just met has no STD's or other issues. That said condoms work & that will always be your best bet.


RyuFujin 56F  
1445 posts
2/20/2019 1:57 am

Always use a condom. People can, and have, lied in order to have unprotected sex; I've seen it happen, unfortunately. You just cannot take anyone on their word alone, and unless their STD report is within the past three months, I wouldn't take any chance.

It just baffles me beyond belief how many profiles I've seen here that send up a lot of red flags. If you're not using a condom with every partner every time, you're running the gauntlet, and it could mean your life.

Sex is great, and I love it a lot, but it's not that good that I'd willingly put my life on the line for it.


"Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.


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