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Throw Me a Party๐ŸŽ‰... When I'm Dead and Gone ๐Ÿ˜„... I'll Bring The Music ๐ŸŽถ ๐Ÿค—  

backpocket13 50M
9007 posts
6/21/2019 7:01 pm

Hey Paul,
.........You can shoot my body into one of those big open sewage canals for all that I care, but there has to be a Party!........Loud Music, Cocktails, Good Strong Smoke, some Light Hallucinogens, a few Uppers, a couple Screamers, a whole lotta Laughers, and Cocaine,........A Lot of the Fucking Cocaine,.........
Sinfully Yours, backpocket13


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
6/21/2019 7:43 pm

    Quoting  :

I'm sure it'll be a worthy and memorable celebration of her life... ๐Ÿ˜Š
Of course people will show up... advertise free coffee and donuts ๐Ÿฉโ˜•...
Yep... people will show up. You'd be surprised. Of course... you might never know.Hmmm... or perhaps... Twilight Zone material, right? ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
Love that song choice. Wow! Hmmm. Yep. That will bring the house down, right? ๐Ÿ‘
Thanks for sharing.
I'm sure your Mother's event will go well. I'd love to hear about it afterwards. ๐Ÿ˜Š


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
6/21/2019 7:58 pm

    Quoting RyuFujin:
    Oh, I have a few small requests... and these are to remind people that I had an off-beat, somewhat macabre sense of humor, and hopefully to set off a few giggles, eye rolls, and head shakes.

    At my viewing/memorial, I wish to have the song "Pop Goes the Weasel" play, right before the start of anything that anyone wants to say.

    I also wish to have someone dressed up as the Grim Reaper, complete with scythe (fake of course but real-looking), who will randomly point to someone in the audience every now and then.

    In addition, I wish to have on the inside of the memorial pamphlets, two lyrical quotes from two of my favorite bands:

    "A tous le monde, a tous mes amis, Je vous aime, Je dois partir", from A Tout le Monde by Megadeth.

    "My body lies, yet still I roam", from Wherever I May Roam by Metallica.

    Various other selected music that touches on such a somber time will be playing also. Though I haven't really compiled a permanent list of that yet.

    What to do with my body? Well, for those who truly wish to "keep me around", there are these pendants you can buy that will hold a very small amount of a loved one's ashes, and they hang from a necklace.

    There are also these places that will take your cremated remains, and place you into a biodegradable potted container with a tree seed in it, to be planted in the ground. This creation is based off of the saying We were born of the Earth, and to the Earth we shall return, and I think both of those items/things are very interesting and thoughtful to do for a departed loved one.

    Or my next of kin can just BBQ my happy arse, stick a small amount of me in a batch of brownies, and EAT ME!
Wow... That's wild! Both those songs are killer... and the lyrics are really deep.
So.. about that Grim Reaper idea.. ya think your friends have a sense of humour? lol omg... ๐Ÿ˜Š โ˜บ๏ธ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
Interesting concept with the tree planting...
But I'm really not sure about BBQ you! lol ๐Ÿ˜‚... Now live you? I might want to taste that... hmmm
Did I just say that out loud? ๐Ÿค” OMG... lol
Interesting stuff... for sure! ๐Ÿ‘
Megadeth right? Wild! ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘Œ


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
6/21/2019 8:01 pm

    Quoting Naughtypursuit:
    Its Potluck... bring what you want and dont mind having left overs of... as long as there are no green peppers in anything. I hate green peppers. In homage to me, no green peppers at the pot luck.
Wow! That's funny. I was going to bring my sweet and sour pork, which has green peppers in it. I'll take out the peppers.
Green peppers? Lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
What's wrong with them? ๐Ÿค” ๐Ÿ˜
Is that it? ๐Ÿค”


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
6/21/2019 8:06 pm

    Quoting backpocket13:
    Hey Paul,
    .........You can shoot my body into one of those big open sewage canals for all that I care, but there has to be a Party!........Loud Music, Cocktails, Good Strong Smoke, some Light Hallucinogens, a few Uppers, a couple Screamers, a whole lotta Laughers, and Cocaine,........A Lot of the Fucking Cocaine,.........
    Sinfully Yours, backpocket13
THAT sounds like a great party! ๐Ÿ‘ One that I'd probably hang around for a couple of three or four days... Can you imagine what a wild and crazy party that would be?
Wow... ๐Ÿ˜Š
At some point... I think we'd take a break and come up for air! ๐Ÿ‘
Yep... That would be a classic. ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿค”
I like the balance, between the highs and the lows, that you've suggested. Looks like a balanced diet. lol... ๐Ÿ˜Š
Sounds doable! ๐Ÿ‘


pollly_anna 60F  
697 posts
6/21/2019 9:16 pm

Well for myself the whole works the 3 day viewing the burial. pictures of me from babyhood all the way till adulthood....and my music all my loved sappy love songs perry como. tom jones.,johnny mathis. george micheal


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
6/22/2019 3:29 am

    Quoting  :

Boy... we sure are! Sushi ๐Ÿฅ... pizza ๐Ÿ•... why not! I'm about to have breakfast ๐Ÿฅฃ... ๐Ÿ˜Š I'd have THAT in a flash ๐Ÿ“ธ lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ‘


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
6/22/2019 3:57 am

    Quoting pollly_anna:
    Well for myself the whole works the 3 day viewing the burial. pictures of me from babyhood all the way till adulthood....and my music all my loved sappy love songs perry como. tom jones.,johnny mathis. george micheal
Ahhh... very traditional... ๐Ÿ˜Š
My community has stopped the three day viewing a couple of years ago. Everyone just does one day... hmmm. I don't know how THAT started.
Nice music selection... Sounds like you said... sappy... ๐Ÿ˜Š ๐Ÿ‘
I won't ask you about food... lol We know THAT'S not on your list. ๐Ÿ“ƒ๐Ÿ˜Š


Livin_my_Life14 53F

6/22/2019 5:50 am

I was at the cemetery too!! Must have been a fatherโ€™s day thing to do. I am giving my body to science. - my family can celebrate as they wish!


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
6/22/2019 9:56 am

    Quoting Livin_my_Life14:
    I was at the cemetery too!! Must have been a fatherโ€™s day thing to do. I am giving my body to science. - my family can celebrate as they wish!
Really? ๐Ÿค” Hmmm... interesting choice... I don't trust those guys... lol.
Or, is what I've put my body through, make my body of no use to them? Eee.. ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
Maybe it was a Father's Day thing...

So... when you donate your body to science... do they give your family a toe or a finger to burry? ๐Ÿค”
Or do they just get, the free tickets๐ŸŽŸ๏ธ to the disection theatre?
Just curious....


sexyeyes3212 65F
17 posts
6/22/2019 2:01 pm

Yeah. Share you blah. How do you know that you wouldn't have a wife then? lol And where is the grave with the man & woman having sex from? My mothers ashes were suppose to go to me. But since she wanted to be with her husband, they are at the evil step people's house.


pollly_anna 60F  
697 posts
6/22/2019 5:36 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Ahhh... very traditional... ๐Ÿ˜Š
    My community has stopped the three day viewing a couple of years ago. Everyone just does one day... hmmm. I don't know how THAT started.
    Nice music selection... Sounds like you said... sappy... ๐Ÿ˜Š ๐Ÿ‘
    I won't ask you about food... lol We know THAT'S not on your list. ๐Ÿ“ƒ๐Ÿ˜Š
IF you pay they will do 3 days still............why would food be on my list.......?


SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 posts
6/22/2019 6:56 pm

A party celebrating my life sounds pretty fine. I like the idea of sharing food and wine and laughter. Much better than tears.

Whatcha going to put on your playlist?

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." โ€“ Mark Black


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
6/23/2019 4:07 am

    Quoting  :

Great line... and definitely interesting concept. Ya think anyone would catch it, or we'd all be running from it? lol... ๐Ÿ˜‚
Yep... worth a try.. Can you imagine if someone actually threw it? omg... I'm visualizing that whole scene. ๐Ÿ˜ฎ


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
6/23/2019 4:21 am

    Quoting SeaGirlFL:
    A party celebrating my life sounds pretty fine. I like the idea of sharing food and wine and laughter. Much better than tears.

    Whatcha going to put on your playlist?
Yeah... that playlist will be an eclectic mish mash of a whole bunch of styles and types of songs. That ZZ Top song - Le Grange... for sure. The songs have to have a strong beat! And good tune!
Beetles, Led Zeplin (Whole Lotta Love).... Sam Smith, jeez..... I better start working on that list. ๐Ÿ“ƒ
I like many different styles of music ๐ŸŽถ so it won't be one type. Some new tunes, are nice as well.
You? Whatcha gonna play? ๐Ÿค”
What's on the menu?
You know me.... Meatloaf... lol... Ribs, bbq chicken.. all my favorites... ๐Ÿ˜Š
Ya know. It would be fun to plan it out.
"Hey kids. The inheritance ain't that much. But here's a playlist and a menu!" lol ๐Ÿ˜‚


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
6/23/2019 4:38 am

    Quoting sexyeyes3212:
    Yeah. Share you blah. How do you know that you wouldn't have a wife then? lol And where is the grave with the man & woman having sex from? My mothers ashes were suppose to go to me. But since she wanted to be with her husband, they are at the evil step people's house.
Me? With a wife? I don't think so. Been there. Done that.
I was looking for a sexy couple, but most of what I found was lame. ๐Ÿ˜Š
Evil step people? Eeeee... Not good.
So... what about you?
Ya got a song you'd want played?
A bunch of food on your menu? ๐Ÿค”


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
6/23/2019 4:43 am

    Quoting pollly_anna:
    IF you pay they will do 3 days still............why would food be on my list.......?
Hmmm...
Food? You? Of course not! lol.....๐Ÿ˜Š
That would be me...
Rob's and bbq chicken ๐Ÿ” and meatloaf and scalloped potatoes and black Forest cake ๐ŸŽ‚... ๐Ÿ˜Š


BeccaLuvs 61F
20895 posts
6/23/2019 12:12 pm

"The end" - and here Paul we are all the same, we all have to .....end! People who love us, are close to us, will remember us, but music always 'helps', doesn't it?!

..... And always 'hold onto all those sexy thoughts'!
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SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 posts
6/23/2019 6:05 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Yeah... that playlist will be an eclectic mish mash of a whole bunch of styles and types of songs. That ZZ Top song - Le Grange... for sure. The songs have to have a strong beat! And good tune!
    Beetles, Led Zeplin (Whole Lotta Love).... Sam Smith, jeez..... I better start working on that list. ๐Ÿ“ƒ
    I like many different styles of music ๐ŸŽถ so it won't be one type. Some new tunes, are nice as well.
    You? Whatcha gonna play? ๐Ÿค”
    What's on the menu?
    You know me.... Meatloaf... lol... Ribs, bbq chicken.. all my favorites... ๐Ÿ˜Š
    Ya know. It would be fun to plan it out.
    "Hey kids. The inheritance ain't that much. But here's a playlist and a menu!" lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
Oh, I love that idea...planning the food and the playlist! I might steal that from you.

When my former father in law passed last year, the kids and my brother in law spent hours going through photos and scanning them for a slide show. It was awesome. I might want to pick some of those too.

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." โ€“ Mark Black


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
6/23/2019 6:49 pm

    Quoting SeaGirlFL:
    Oh, I love that idea...planning the food and the playlist! I might steal that from you.

    When my former father in law passed last year, the kids and my brother in law spent hours going through photos and scanning them for a slide show. It was awesome. I might want to pick some of those too.
Oh yes... For sure. Pics! Yes. I forgot about that...
Oh crap... another thing on my list of things to do.....
Make a music MIX , a pics list and menu... for when I'm gone. lol
OMG... What have I started? ๐Ÿค”
lol... But I can take... my time....
Instead of pissing away a Sunday afternoon, I can get a playlist together.. ๐Ÿ˜Š ๐Ÿ‘
It's not MY idea.... Please feel free... I'm just copying what I saw. ๐Ÿ˜Š


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
6/23/2019 6:53 pm

    Quoting BeccaLuvs:
    "The end" - and here Paul we are all the same, we all have to .....end! People who love us, are close to us, will remember us, but music always 'helps', doesn't it?!
Music does... and food... and pictures...
Although... I'm not so sure about those dick pics, I have buried in my private folders. I need a safety guardian.... in case I go... before I leave THIS site... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
Ya have a stash of porn magazines, underneath your bed? omg... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
6/25/2019 4:45 am

Sure... a little Skid Row... ๐Ÿ˜Š ๐Ÿ‘ โค๏ธ
Sounds like you might also be a Nickelback fan?
"Someday"? ๐Ÿค” ๐Ÿ˜


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
6/26/2019 11:45 pm

I have signed up as an organ donor so salvageable body parts and tissue will be harvested. Whatever is left will be cremated. There will be no sad songs or standing around mourning. Hopefully, some will gather to share fond memories and laughs while raising a glass of Stoneleigh ( Sauvignon Blanc). Ham, scalloped potatoes, corn and carrots will remind them of my โ€˜go toโ€™ meal.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
6/27/2019 5:10 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    I have signed up as an organ donor so salvageable body parts and tissue will be harvested. Whatever is left will be cremated. There will be no sad songs or standing around mourning. Hopefully, some will gather to share fond memories and laughs while raising a glass of Stoneleigh ( Sauvignon Blanc). Ham, scalloped potatoes, corn and carrots will remind them of my โ€˜go toโ€™ meal.
Sounds like you've got it all planned out.
I like that meal... ๐Ÿ˜Š ๐Ÿ‘


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
7/10/2019 3:22 am

I haven't posted here in a while. I posted this story yesterday. Check it out... It's amusing... ๐Ÿ˜Š
Drake Played At FrankeeZee39s Pool Party


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