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Stimulated intimacy....Disconnected physically
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Stimulated intimacy....Disconnected physically My pussy gets dripping sloppy wet when my sexual partner has no inhibitions, but for the most part no matter how good he or she may be, the only way I cum is thinking about some generic person (mostly ) being taken advantage of. Whether it be male/female babysitters, stepparents, or a runaway being taken in by some. Penetration doesn’t do it for me, but thinking of something like that while grinding works the majority of the time or I just don’t cum at all. Am I alone on the island? TopShelf-Chocl8 |
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It can be sexy to act out a scene with a partner, including some that might be exploitation if they weren't just role-play. For example, because we're both movie people, the "casting couch" thing is kind of a turn-on for us, though all the real life news about actual exploitation along those lines kind of spoils a lot of the fun. Fantasizing about real people can be a turn-on too. For example, my wife and I know a very good-looking woman -- quite similar in looks to my wife, except for blonde hair -- and she has occasionally said things like, "Wouldn't you like to be doing this with [her name]?" There's another very attractive woman we both know, and she has said, "Wouldn't you like to fool around with Marathon Woman?" (The woman's name isn't easy to pronounce, thus the nickname.) That's a turn-on partly because those women (and others) are a turn-on, but also because it's a turn-on when my wife acknowledges that my fantasies sometimes involve women other than her. Another turn-on for me that my wife is aware of and sometimes indulges is that I'm turned on by being watched by other women (or couples). So she might say, "Wouldn't it be hot if Marathon Woman were watching us?" My wife is herself neutral about being watched, but she knows it turns me on, and just knowing something turns me on turns her on too. Something else that works for me is thinking about going down on my wife (or another woman) while I'm fucking her. Going down on a woman is such a turn-on for me. Penetration by itself doesn't do it for her either. But if I've gone down on her for a while (which usually results in several orgasms), penetration might be good for another one for her. Penetration with even a little fantasizing will make her come too. And if I happen to come when she's close, that almost always pushes her over the edge too.
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It’s nice to get your experience from various situations. Especially when you were married. I’ve never been married but I used to assume that those who were had a mutual sexual chemistry, but have learned from my own journey for sexual satisfaction improvement that many Marriages struggle in this area also. Thanks for responding! TopShelf-Chocl8
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Curious it is those situutions. Very curious.  “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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Fantasies nearly always help people to cum. However it is sometimes necessary to think of thoughts to stop me cuming., especially when I really like the person and what we are doing I guess Freud would make a meal of this.. “For a moment, nothing happened. Then, after a second or so, nothing continued to happen.” ― Douglas Adams, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy Much like this site  Visit my Blog for my adventures.
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2/19/2018 10:32 pm |
well that exactly has not happened to me, however, banging mi ex-wife would not really make me cum, but only when I remembered myself making love to my college sweetheart! The best Sex always begins in your head!!!!
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