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I am flustered!  

softsweets777 31F
196 posts
1/25/2018 2:34 pm
I am flustered!


I finally have a topic for a blog post and it will be rather quick...

I HATE THE INSTANT MESSENGER ON HERE!

I do appreciate that as a woman on here with a standard account I don't have to use points to chat, which apparently is an issue for guys. Though not being able to use certain words, or having chats not connect at all is infuriating! Some people, no matter how hard I try to reach them are impossible to get at. EVEN WORSE is when I'm in a chat and it just drops out. What kind of broken is this? This company really needs to hire up some new people to fix the chat. And don't even come at me about ing for this site. The sponsorships on here should be doing perfectly well to support their funding. Fucking really pissed about this right now!

I hope every else is having a wonderful day!

Smakd4life42o 45M
22 posts
1/25/2018 3:06 pm

I hate when the chats dont go through and if i use points to chat half the time they arent delivered and still am charged. It kinda is a ripoff


Skeemac 56M
589 posts
1/25/2018 3:08 pm

Yes this IM is total crap. And they charge you points whether the chat goes thru or not. They are a bunch of scammers.
You can use words...code to chat somewhere else....
Like gml.....or kickkk


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
1/25/2018 3:09 pm

Yea always bugs with the IM and all standard members have to use points regardless if your a man or a woman, they need to go back a few years when everything was available at no cost!!!

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


softsweets777 replies on 1/25/2018 4:08 pm:
I'm not using any points actually and I'm standard.

Singleshyguynga 33M
73 posts
1/25/2018 3:53 pm


Megadethmetal4 28M
22 posts
1/25/2018 7:26 pm

It's a shame that they're able to sell people a literal broken service. I hope they fix it one day


vrgrn2982 41M

1/25/2018 7:28 pm

I always try to use IM to chat but I'd 90% it doesn't go through. So it leaves me just wondering, "Well shit! Maybe she wasn't interested I guess, or did I say something wrong? " So it's good to know that I'm not the only one that feels like that way. They charge for everything on this site you'd think they could fix this one thing?!


Imakehermelt 33M

1/28/2018 3:11 pm

You really hit the nail on the head there.


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