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Local Opnions/Reviews Requested  

Thorne713 67M
7 posts
10/26/2017 11:18 am
Local Opnions/Reviews Requested


I was wondering if some of My local compatriots here would like to give their analysis/review of their experiences on this site so far. It would be helpful to know how others have fared on this site. That way I can see if My experiences so far are typical or not.

sportzguy4me 61M
14 posts
12/3/2017 7:38 pm

I have had many offers for meeting unfortunately i cannot host and that makes it tough. Otherwise a good site.

Sportzguy4me - Allentown PA


Banana_Canyon 46F

1/18/2018 3:13 pm

From my personal female point of view, my experience being on this site have been sour. I have dealt with everything OTHER than what I have actually been here seeking, including rudeness, ignorance, childishness, retaliation, perverts, and every other thing you can imagine.
1 .) Part of the issue is that the site itself is a business, so we're dealing with a business generating nonsense to generate it's profits. This includes an intentionally glitchy operating platform and all sorts of money-making gimmicks in the effort to basically get people to pay for a site that operates terribly and contains a majority of society's rejects.
2 .) The other part of the issue pertains to society itself. I have found that society and social behavior is completely deteriorated and is in shambles. That being said, since we're solely dealing with people here from society, it directly reflects that critical state of social disorder in the vast majority of the people I have chatted to here. Again, the rudeness, ignorance, childishness, retaliation, etc... gets inserted here.

Also, I really think there are so many variables to consider that it makes each scenario from person to person so unique. Some will say they have a lot of success. Others will say it's a nightmare. We really have to ask a lot of questions which determine each outcome, person to person. Such as:
* What the personality of that person is.
* What is their sex?
* What is their sexual orientation?
* Are they single/married/attached?
* What is their availability/work schedule/home life like as far as free time is concerned?
* How well do they interact with others?
* What is their tolerance levels with interacting with the type of people who exist here?
* What is their search criteria in what they seek here? Etc...

If they are pretty easy going, not too critical in what they seek, looking for casual hookups, have open availability, like to mingle...then I'd imagine a fairly positive outcome.
If they are more specific in their search, have less availability or circumstances in their lives to work around, less tolerance for nonsense....then I'd imagine more of a negative outcome.

There are literally so many variables here that make a search from person to person differ. Take into consideration of male to female ratios here. I honestly don't truly know the ratio number, but I can say that for every one woman here, there must be dozens, if not hundreds of men to each female. At the same token, take into consideration that some of those women are bots, some are catfish, some are lesbians, some are bisexual ( seeking only women ), and some are not here to meet at all but to just chat/blog/cam/socialize online. That limits any guy's chance here considerably, no matter what.

Now, take Sportzguy4me's comment here ( no, not picking on you ). He claims to have had many offers here, but hosting is his issue. Taking a look at his profile, it's not clear to his marital status. If single, I can imagine he's going to yield more offers. His profile also says he's bisexual. Sportzguy4me didn't exactly mention if a ton of offers were coming from other men here. Lol. If so, plenty of bi/gay men meet one another here. I think what Thorne is asking is what the outcome of male/female experiences have been here, so the fact that Sportzguy4me is bi and marital status unknown tends to be vague and can have it's loophole in the accuracy of the question at hand.

Again, the point I make here is that there are just so many variables in the matter that it's incredibly tough to give an honest review. To some, the site sometimes works for people and their search/situation. To others, it's a disaster. Personally, I found the site to be a disaster all around, both systemically and also due to social behavior issues I consistently encounter. I've learned that a site which deals with some levels of sex, intimacy, romance turns men cuckoo. For some reason, a lack of differentiation becomes the norm around here. A personals site here turns into a porno site. Fantasy fogs reality. Porn = horniness. Horniness = jackasses with pervy and irrelevant chat. And so on and so forth. It's a complete downward spiral of chaos that ultimately turns-off and pushes the truly genuine and good women like me off this site. This is why it hasn't worked for me at all. Hope you have better luck. You are one of the few genuine men I have truly liked here, Thorne.


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