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Rudeness - Incident #13  

Banana_Canyon 46F
0 posts
2/2/2018 1:03 pm
Rudeness - Incident #13
So yeah, I'm taking a break here and my profile even says that, yet I'm still getting the third degree out of the blue from others who feel the need to criticize. You just got to love these people who want to give you a good lecture, merely because they disagree with what my profile entails. Don't like it? Don't fit criteria? Move on! I don't know you. You don't know me. I didn't ask for your input. People twist things around and want to make it out so that I'm the 'miserable' or 'rude' woman here, yet they take no accountability for their own actions in behaviors which has made me so firm and short tempered in the first place. Those who know me here can vouch for how gentle and kind I truly am if the nonsense is cut from the equation.

So anyway, I get this random email today from a perfect stranger ( shown below ). As if the criticizing isn't bad enough, what makes my blood boil even more is the fact that they are bold enough to shoot off this email to me and yet instantly 'block' me from responding back to them ( as you can clearly see in the photo, no area to respond means I have been blocked on their side ). I mean seriously people, how cowardly and childish are we here, really??? 41 & 43 year old couple here? I've seen 12 year-old's more mature.

The message says it all, folks. Exposure of the clowns here is a wonderful thing.

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notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
2/2/2018 1:29 pm

 you do get some winners


Banana_Canyon replies on 2/5/2018 12:26 pm:
That's for darn sure.

jolielaide 52F  
1754 posts
2/2/2018 1:47 pm

 yea, there are literally some crazy people out there who seem to think that how they approach and talk to others on here is acceptable or normal. glad you called them on their brand of bs. and there are other women on here, that i know of, who have experienced the same rude, harassing, stalkerish behavior. thanks for identifying another a**hole profiler.


Banana_Canyon replies on 2/5/2018 12:31 pm:
I call the nonsense out as I see it. Hopefully the efforts of exposure from enough people here will get people to think first before they write foolish, rude, ignorant and irrelevant remarks to others. I can imagine that ALL real women here go through this same type of nonsense here. It's time to not tolerate this any longer.

I appreciate your comment!

OldrHarleyGuy 72M

2/2/2018 1:48 pm

 Welcome to Senior Sizzle and as well with other sites. Look at the fucked up world we are living in and it explains it all!!


Banana_Canyon replies on 2/5/2018 12:35 pm:
So true! It's not just this site only, it's all other similar sites, as well. Fact of the matter is that people who reside here, also reside on the same other sites. What it boils down to is a social disorder. One group of people corrupt and influence others; we're dumbing-down society. So since the internet itself is a big network of different sites and the same people, we are all conditioning one another with this mentality. It's really sad how humanity has slipped down the toilet.

Thanks for your comment. Agreed!

traveljunkie13 56F
11089 posts
2/2/2018 2:17 pm

 What a jackass!

They get so freaking angry about the stupidest of shit.


Banana_Canyon replies on 2/5/2018 12:36 pm:
Exactly! How typical and predictable things have even become here.

Appreciate your comment.

Brownie202 37F  
2680 posts
2/2/2018 3:06 pm

 Better to find out now when not meeting then waste any time if you was what @$$holes they are. One poor excuse for a human wrote he hopes I die from cancer. Why ? My profile says no younger men.
Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


Banana_Canyon replies on 2/5/2018 12:42 pm:
Point of the matter is that I'm no longer even looking. My profile even describes that very clearly AND this user is a premium gold member, so he rants over my criteria, yet it's very clear that I'm not looking. Point here being, why rant at all...but especially over what I was seeking ( past tense ) if I am no longer even seeking anything? His comment is laughable at best! You're right, though. A lot of these losers are poor excuses for humans. If they don't like a profile or don't meet criteria, then just move on. In fact, that's the entire purpose of a profile to begin with, so you scout for the match you're after. We all know that everyone seeks different things. That's all part of the challenge here in finding. No shortage of clowns here, I can certainly relate to what you go through, as well.

Thanks for the comment!

jolielaide 52F  
1754 posts
2/3/2018 7:54 pm
    Quoting Brownie202:
    Better to find out now when not meeting then waste any time if you was what @$$holes they are. One poor excuse for a human wrote he hopes I die from cancer. Why ? My profile says no younger men.
omg, that's just a horribly rude thing to say to someone. i rebuffed a younger (teen) man on here and well, let me just say it didn't go well. i found myself apologizing to him for saying no thank you. how sick is that game you have to play with some on here?


dirtyoldfartmt 74M
Ask me for a photo
44 posts
3/2/2018 5:22 am

 A positive note on that message, he wishes you good luck out there.


Banana_Canyon replies on 3/4/2018 8:19 am:
This is true, but there is still no justification in someone going out of their way to compose a criticizing email to someone else, only then to sign off on a good note. That's kind of like saying "go f*** yourself....but, have a nice day".

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