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Bi-sexual profiles: The mystery.  

Banana_Canyon 46F
0 posts
7/26/2017 11:33 am
Bi-sexual profiles: The mystery.

Well I'm confused here and would love to hear input on what I'll explain here pertaining to profiles of those who are "bi-sexual". So after reading through dozens upon dozens of profiles here, I have always took an observation to the fact that mostly all members here who claim to be "bi-sexual" (according to their profiles sexual orientation status) are normally always in search of seeking the same sex, while omitting any interest in the sex opposite to their own. Why is this? I understand that we're all here for reasons of our own, but I can never really make heads or tails of the ratio of almost all bi-sexuals here in search of ONLY their same sex. Now, without naming any individual screen names here, I'll show a few examples from the recent searches I've made today and why I felt the need to bring this up now. Note, this applies to either sex. Here are some:

* (female) Sexual Orientation: Bi-sexual. "I'm a bisexual married woman looking for a female friend to have fun with inside and outside of the bedroom. No men!"

* (female) Sexual Orientation: Bi-sexual. "40 Bi-MILF in need of a FEMALE ONLY!!.. NO drama.. just good times!!"

* (female) Sexual Orientation: Bi-sexual. "I'm a single young lady hoping to find a sexy lady to have fun with. Sorry men I'm not interested and I will not return your messages."

* (male) Sexual Orientation: Bi-sexual. "I'm looking for discreet, ongoing, sexual encounters with men only at this time. Needing some intense intimacy with a sexy man today!!"

*(male) Sexual Orientation: Bi-sexual. "Big cock is what I'm looking for. Love a nice submissive cock loving guy."

*(male) Sexual Orientation: Bi-sexual. "Guys who like to have a good time in no strings attached action. Guys who like to explore their bottom side with me."

And the list goes on and on... So although most people claim to be bi, what most normally seek here seems to be gravitated and geared toward the same sex in what they seek. To me, I find this very mysterious. It's almost like really saying that they are gay if they are bi-sexual and yet only ever really seek same sex interests here. Puzzling to me, because this isn't just an isolated one or two examples that I find here like this, but most examples it seems. If I had to take a rough guess, I'd say that 75% or more of "bi-sexual" profiles seek the same sex or are geared in wording which pertains to their sole interest in the same sex and not an equal split of seeking either sex. Any thoughts?

trisha_ann_glynn 51T
1982 posts
7/27/2017 12:46 am

 The title of my page is "Bisexual By Choice"
Why? Because I like to have sex with both men and women.
Sometimes one-on-one, sometimes one of each gender in a three way.
But, I want to enjoy them both sexually.

There are people that feel admitting homosexuality is shameful.
They claim bi-sexuality, yet seek same gender only for sexual relationships.
I am not heterosexual, and will not limit myself to homosexuality.


Banana_Canyon 46F

8/2/2017 12:15 pm

 Thanks for some of your input on it, however I didn't really honestly didn't get much out of them that really addressed the questions I had or that made very much sense to me yet. I 'get it' to some extent that if someone if attached that they may have a desire for the opposite sex and seek it here. That's probably the most logical thing I can think of. However, why be bi-sexual and completely rule out any/all interests in the sex opposite to their own still leaves much mystery. I'm bi. I seek mostly a guy here since the odds of finding a local female interested in another female (one on one) is highly unlikely to find or expect here. Nevertheless, I'm open to either sex and that's made clear on my profile. I don't understand or buy the whole "being shameful of homosexuality and can't admit it" thing when Senior Sizzle is a place of complete openness and diversity when it comes to anything in regard to a sexual nature. What it says about a homosexual that claims a bi-sexual status is that they are lying to your face right from the start on their profile to everyone, which automatically gives the negative first impression of deceit. The idea here is to be open and honest, to know who you are, what you seek and advertising that to others here in hopes to find someone with the same interest.

Again, it still remains mysterious for me for the most part of why these 'bi-sexual' profiles almost always rule out anything pertaining to the sex opposite of theirs. I find that odd.

Now call me a tough cookie if you'd like, but I'm not on the site to be deceitful with others, not here to play games, not here to waste time in trying to figure out what the heck the other person's sexuality is or anything like that here. It shouldn't be a guessing game and the sole intent of a profile is to read it and to know exactly who that person is and what they seek. Oh, and the best ones are the ones I read where the person hasn't any clue what they seek or why there are here. So why sign up?
Lol. People here seem clueless! So anyway, thanks for chiming in, it's appreciated.


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