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Searching for bdsm playmates  

tankangelz 47F
3 posts
3/31/2017 9:04 pm
Searching for bdsm playmates

How does a bbw go about finding a playmate that is into bdsm? I personally love to be spanked. My husband doesn't push my limits because he is afraid of hurting me. I love to have my nipples twisted and pulled on. I love to have my hair pulled during sex or a blowjob. I liked being restrained.

I just dont know how to find a nice person that will not hurt or abuse me.

SnakeBiteB 53M
50 posts
4/1/2017 4:23 am

 You can try a BDSM meet and greet. Get to know the person, over several in person meetings. Make sure they offer you a safe word. This is important because even if you currently think you have no limits, you may find out about one when it is triggered by surprise in the middle of a scene. You don't want to be freaking out with no way to stop it. Lots of communication is key. If you don't like what he is doing let him know. If he does it anyways, don't ever see him again. Hope this helped? Good luck and enjoy.


tankangelz replies on 4/1/2017 6:00 am:
Thank you very much. I have been talking to a person several times about meeting. I just wanted to know what to look out for or questions to ask during the meeting. Thank you for your advice.

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