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FWB questionnaire  

Oralmourner 47F
67 posts
8/23/2018 7:02 am
FWB questionnaire

Here are some questions I should’ve asked when I was seeking a FWB relationship.

1.What is your name or what you prefer to be called?

2. Married, attached or single?

3. What are you looking for on Senior Sizzle?

4. Have you ever had an ongoing FWB relationship?

5. Define what is a friends with benefits?

6. What are your sexual kinks and proclivities?

7. What are some of the sexual fantasies you want to check off you list or want to do again?

8. What would turn you off with a FWB?

9. How many lovers have you had?

10. Would you leave after or stay the night?

11. Do you like cuddling afterwards?

12. Condom or skin?

13. Do you give Oral pleasures? Receiving oral pleasure?

14. Do you enjoy your prostate played with during sex?

15. How many lovers do you have currently?

16. Have sex on the first date?

17. How many lovers have you met from Senior Sizzle or from dating apps?

18. Do you enjoy being watched?

19. Three sum? Opposite sex? Same sex?

20. Do you enjoy rough sex? Explain how rough?

21. How many times would you like to cum?

22. Are you just after an occasional sex partner to fill in your free time?

23. Do you like fore play?

24. What is fore play to you?

25. Do you like sex in clothes?

26. Do you like lingerie? If so, describe what fabric, color and types?

27. Do you like latex outfit? Shiny or matte?

28. Do you have good stamina?

29. Do you think a woman is a slut for enjoying sex like a man?

30. Have you ever ghosted someone after you had sex but led them on that you were interested in more?

31. Do you lose interest if a girls fucks you immediately?

32. Do you enjoy the thrill of the chase than having sex?

33. Are you into hardcore BDSM?

34. Ever attend a sex party?

35. Ever been part of group sex with multiple men and one woman?

36. Do you enjoy giving anal?

37. Would no anal sex be a deal breaker?

38. Are you experienced in public sex?

39. What are turn offs for you that will make you lose interest in a girl?

40. Can you host exclusively?

41. Would hanging out be a no-on for you in a friends with benefits relationship?

42. Do you like sex in hotels?

43. Do you enjoy choking during sex?

44. How big is your cock?

45. Do you enjoy talking dirty during sex?

46. Are you good giving sensual massages?

47. Would you ever fuck another women while being watched?

48. Spit or lube?

49. Do you drive?

50. What is your ideal body type?

51. Do you travel a lot for work?

52. Do you work a lot?

53. Do you have ? Share custody living arrangements?

54. What are forbidden conversation topics?

55. Have roommates?

56. When was the last time you were tested?

57. What are hard no’s for you during sex?

58. What is a casual sexual relationship to you?

59. Do you enjoy open polyamory relationships?

60. Would it be ok to fuck around if we tell each other about it?

61. If I write about our sex session, would this turn you off? Or lose interest?

Sadly, I didn’t asked all of these questions and it’s led to some really bad choices in the men I’ve had sex with. While some were memorable experiences, none became a friend with benefits. Guys just want to fuck on their time and never want to hang like friends. It’s too emotionally involved for them.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/26/2018 4:10 pm

The flaw in the concept of "Fwb", is that the "Benefit" is "Sex".

Do we normally have sex with out friends? No. In fact women who are "Friends" with males, think if they have sex with her male friend , that will ruin the "Friendship". ..... So how does one get a Fwb?

Alright, so that means "Fwb" should be "BwF"...... because naturally when you see a guy, you either want to have sex with him, or you just don't want to have sex with him.
You have sex with him, and maybe you become friends [no guarantees]. If you don't become friends, but you still like the sex, then he's a booty call, or becomes a boyfriend.

My point is .... people don't meet each other and wait to become friends, and THEN have sex. That doesn't work. Men , or even women, should not expect "Friendship" to come first. ...."Sexual desire" must come first, or at the very least, a sexual attraction for each other.

Oh, and good questions.


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