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I'm real...what are you?  

jljewels 52F
29 posts
12/2/2016 4:24 am
I'm real...what are you?


LOL...you have to find the humor in online dating/hook-ups.

I read profiles before I decide whether I'm going to talk to a guy. Married, girlfriend, attached status means it's going to be harder to hook-up but some guys make it happen. I just learned not to expect anything more than that one hook-up although sometimes they come back for more. It's not going to be steady because no one is creative enough to make excuses and alibis.

So you would think single guys are easier to hook up with and they are with the exception of those who are all talk. I read guys profiles where they question if girls on this site are real and they stress they are there to actually meet up. If they are single and they find a girl who is willing to meet them, it should be a done deal.

Most looking for FREQUENT friends with benefits do not know the definition of frequent. It's not once a month or two, or when they realize they can't hook up with anyone else. But hey, I'm on here to get some so despite my pet peeve that it is always only when the guy wants it, I give in.

Then you have the profiles where the guy has an extreme sex drive and is looking for someone who can keep up...lol....same as above.

I'd like to think I am honest and intelligent so as an honest and intelligent woman, when I say I have an uncontrollable sex drive, I mean it. When you say let's get together and I say yes, I mean it. When we set a time, I get ready. If I am coming to you or meeting you somewhere, I am there on time and ready to do everything we spent hours talking about. If you are coming to me, once again, I am ready and waiting.

I am a very cool, open-minded person, I trust people, I'm extremely easy-going, fun and don't let the little things in life bother me BUT when you spend the day or days getting me hornier than I already was and never show up, I get frustrated and pissed. Your pics must have been photoshopped because you have no balls. Your profile is bullshit and you don't need pussy because you are one.

I just read a guy's blog and he mentioned how he hates how women bash men and say it is all men because one douchebag hurt them. I'm not bashing all men, there are some awesome guys out there. And I am open-minded enough to trust each one until I am fucked over by them.

I will admit I am slightly guilty of what he is saying by my stand against older men, especially with gray hair and yes that is because one man turned me off for all the rest. But that is an appearance thing and sorry but appearance turns me on so if I am not attracted to you, I'm not going to hook up with you. I really prefer younger guys, that's just how it is.

So if I message you or you message me and we keep talking, and you are a real man who means what he says then lucky me. If you stand me up, I don't know - maybe it's a game you enjoy, just know you didn't break my heart you just pissed me off and you are the one who lost out. So if a few dirty pics and some dirty talk is all you need, great - glad I could help and hope it got you off enough until you find another chick willing to hear your shit.

I like games - naked twister, strip poker, role play - but I'm not here to play the kinds of games where I am just a pawn 50 miles away. I'll gladly be your pawn but I better feel your hands on me when you move me.

When I say I want sex, that means I want to fuck so if you don't plan on following through with it, don't bother talking to me and setting it up. I'll send you a face pic or two and I have 3 pics on my profile but if you want more, come take your own!

Sorry I had to vent but it just amazes me that some guys are more of a girl than I am LOL

notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
12/2/2016 6:41 am

well written, honesty is needed, treat others as you want to be treated, be respectful, good manners helps too


jljewels replies on 12/8/2016 3:35 am:
Thank you

blqberri69 56F  
52 posts
12/2/2016 6:59 am

True that, its amazing to me also! SMH'


jljewels replies on 12/8/2016 3:36 am:
Glad it's not just me

rakordubro 58M
26 posts
10/31/2019 6:20 am

It amazes me that so many guys are chickenshit.

I have the reverse problem. Most of the women who contact me are scammers or just want me to be a webcam patron. Webcams do exactly jackshit for me, and Jack left town. Same with live strippers. There is something about the physical barriers (distance, clothing) that makes me lose interest.

Nothing changes faster than the speed of love.
- Rush


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