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I have so many questions for women on this site
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I have so many questions for women on this site I think it's safe to say that everyone joined this site for sexual experiences and there's more men on this site because it's harder for us to find a partner and we have much higher sex drives than the average women. But I don't understand why straight women are on this site the more I think about it. Other than the opportunity to explore a bi sexual experience or meet a new sexual partner outside of their normal social circle why are women here and why do women stay? I guess the big question is what are they looking for? Are they all looking for the prince charming in the jizz covered haystack? Or a good fuck with good guy? And what do they consider a good guy? Also with the overwhelming majority being male are they picky because they have so many more options than then men on this site or I'm I just so damn unattractive that I don't get invited to the fuckfest? So many questions that I will never get the answers to. |
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I don't understand this whole human mating thing
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Everyone is here for their own reason - some just to blog, some to get laid (men and women alike), some just to chat in the chat rooms, etc. The reasons for their presence here and what they are looking for are as varied the flavors of ice cream. Read through the blogs and you'll find some answers to just about any question you can think of.
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11/5/2017 3:50 am |
One could ask the same of the men on this site. You would get as many varied answers as the women could give you. Personally I'm here to meet men for sex. I have a very high sex drive and LOVE the variety of men here. It is difficult though to find men that meet my liking and that will actually SHOW UP!!! I get flaked on probably 60% of the time, or the guy has been lying about everything and when we do meet I just ask them to leave.
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As kissing _softly pointed out....people are here for many reasons. For me personally, at this moment in time - I'm not looking for anything other than entertainment: ie; reading blogs, writing some here and there, looking at profiles, and perhaps a little study in human's and their "nature" so to speak. I make that very plain on my profile, and I also clearly (although wordy....lol) state what I eventually may hope to find, and what I want, and don't want. I am picky, not because I think I'm "all that", but because I do hope to find a good, honest, sincere, nice and trustworthy man to perhaps enjoy a long term relationship with. Many on here don't fit that bill, but I have also emailed with some very nice men too, and observed some in the blogs, and can get a sense of who they are by their posts and responses to posts. Whether I will ever meet my "dream" guy here is not a certainty, but I suppose a possibility! Btw....you are not unattractive, so I would not worry about that. Good luck!  Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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My reasons for being here have evolved over time. Initially it was because I was fresh out of a 14 year relationship, wasn't in an emotional place to be trying to start up another "serious" relationship, so I thought maybe I could find a FWB. Then I went through an adventurous phase where I was trying out threesomes, BDSM, etc. For a while I spent a LOT of time chatting in the Upper Midwest chat room. Not necessarily with the end goal of meeting anyone, it was just fun to banter. Eventually I got tired of the fact that most of the men I was meeting, didn't seem interested in more than a "one and done". It seemed to be more about the chase for them, and once the conquest was made it was on to the next one. For a while, I did harbor the hope of maybe finding the needle in the haystack - a sex positive guy who would be interested in having a "real" relationship. I gave up on that and I've been on "only here to blog" status since about 2012.   
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Everyone is here for their own reason - some just to blog, some to get laid (men and women alike), some just to chat in the chat rooms, etc. The reasons for their presence here and what they are looking for are as varied the flavors of ice cream. Read through the blogs and you'll find some answers to just about any question you can think of.
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One could ask the same of the men on this site. You would get as many varied answers as the women could give you. Personally I'm here to meet men for sex. I have a very high sex drive and LOVE the variety of men here. It is difficult though to find men that meet my liking and that will actually SHOW UP!!! I get flaked on probably 60% of the time, or the guy has been lying about everything and when we do meet I just ask them to leave.
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Wow! That was such a great explanation that I feel stupid now. I wish you godspeed on finding the one to express yourself fully with.
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Thanks for commenting. I hope my post added to the entertainment factor of this site for you.
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My reasons for being here have evolved over time. Initially it was because I was fresh out of a 14 year relationship, wasn't in an emotional place to be trying to start up another "serious" relationship, so I thought maybe I could find a FWB. Then I went through an adventurous phase where I was trying out threesomes, BDSM, etc. For a while I spent a LOT of time chatting in the Upper Midwest chat room. Not necessarily with the end goal of meeting anyone, it was just fun to banter. Eventually I got tired of the fact that most of the men I was meeting, didn't seem interested in more than a "one and done". It seemed to be more about the chase for them, and once the conquest was made it was on to the next one. For a while, I did harbor the hope of maybe finding the needle in the haystack - a sex positive guy who would be interested in having a "real" relationship. I gave up on that and I've been on "only here to blog" status since about 2012.
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As kissing _softly pointed out....people are here for many reasons. For me personally, at this moment in time - I'm not looking for anything other than entertainment: ie; reading blogs, writing some here and there, looking at profiles, and perhaps a little study in human's and their "nature" so to speak. I make that very plain on my profile, and I also clearly (although wordy....lol) state what I eventually may hope to find, and what I want, and don't want. I am picky, not because I think I'm "all that", but because I do hope to find a good, honest, sincere, nice and trustworthy man to perhaps enjoy a long term relationship with. Many on here don't fit that bill, but I have also emailed with some very nice men too, and observed some in the blogs, and can get a sense of who they are by their posts and responses to posts. Whether I will ever meet my "dream" guy here is not a certainty, but I suppose a possibility! Btw....you are not unattractive, so I would not worry about that. Good luck! I guess I'm the same as you but a lot less eloquent. I hope my post added to the entertainment factor for you.
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The irony is that we women are also caught up in a bind. We want quality (a for each woman that means a different thing) and we also want something that we haven't been able to find the conventional manner. Hopefully here we can better express exactly what we want, but oftentimes when we do express exactly what we want, the other side thinks it's too much of a bother. As DirrtyCupcake we are trying to do it in a smart effective way without having to compromise who we are overall. So yes it's is a sort of catch-22 even for us.
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The irony is that we women are also caught up in a bind. We want quality (a for each woman that means a different thing) and we also want something that we haven't been able to find the conventional manner. Hopefully here we can better express exactly what we want, but oftentimes when we do express exactly what we want, the other side thinks it's too much of a bother. As DirrtyCupcake we are trying to do it in a smart effective way without having to compromise who we are overall. So yes it's is a sort of catch-22 even for us.
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