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Am I rude?
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Am I rude? Time is very important to me. I don't like to waste my time or waste others' time. So I've been thinking. Is it rude not to accept a meet or greet if I know I won't fuck? I ask because I do feel bad each time I decline a meet and greet and the person persist with why. I don't like being mean or disappointing someone. But on the other hand I will feel worst wasting someone's time. |
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It's not mean at all. You have the right to select who you will and won't fuck. And, since you made it clear in your profile that meet and greet doesn't equal you'll be fucking them, I'd say there's no reason to feel bad.
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It's not mean at all. You have the right to select who you will and won't fuck. And, since you made it clear in your profile that meet and greet doesn't equal you'll be fucking them, I'd say there's no reason to feel bad.
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You are doing it right, do what you thing is right or best for you. is your time and is your body. Please be careful out there.
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everyone always has the right to do what they want. seems you are being upfront about it so . .
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Do not feel bad if that person does not do it for you than moved coward it's you life
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8/6/2016 9:24 pm |
No it is not mean. "Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250
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you have to run your life for you , you do not owe others anything . except not doing evil things to them
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Only you know what you want and your total focus needs to be on achieving that. Be safe, relax and just have fun!
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I'm loving this feedback. Your insights have really helped me.  As a nerd I tend to start asking a lot of questions. So please, be patient with me. Since I'm new to this site, I want to explore, ask questions push my boundaries. So thanks and have a great night.
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You have been honest from the beginning. Wouldn't feel bad and is definitely not being rude. Some people just don't get it BLZCPL
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There is nothing wrong with being goal oriented. Do you really think those men bother meeting women they aern't interested in having sex with? lol You owe them no other explanation other than "I'm not interested"
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If he can't handle polite rejection, he most likely was not the right guy for the job. Do what YOU want. If a person "chooses" to feel bad, that is their choice ... they could very easily have chosen to feel differently.
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There might be a few who could have changed your mind with a meeting, but you don't owe them a chance to do so if they have not peeked your interest.
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There is nothing wrong with the way you are doing things, you are being honest and upfront, you have to be safe and comfortable with anyone you meet, don't change it
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youre not rude at all baby, you hv to be honest and enjoy yourself
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Time is very important to me. ...Should be important to any sensible person. Is it rude not to accept a meet or greet if I know I won't fuck?.... Not rude at all. When you know you won't fuck, then there is absolutely no reason to waste your time with him, nor waste his time. Same concept goes for actual dating. When someone you actually know, invites you on a date, he wants to fuck. So if you're not into him that way, do NOT accept the date invitation, even if the invitation seems really benign like going to the store to get some food. I ask because I do feel bad each time I decline a meet and greet .... That's okay. When you stop feeling bad [under normal circumstances], is when you need to close your profile and do something else. and the person persist with why. .... Because they are rude. Just block them. Nothing else you can do about it. I don't like being mean or disappointing someone. .... That's life sometimes.
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You owe no one nothing. You are who you are and you are not required to validate the existence of anyone else. Take care.
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No you are being honest by not wasting anyones time
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