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Blogs > nerdygirl721 > Full disclosure

Use you for sex?  

nerdygirl721 34F  
2071 posts
7/17/2016 9:25 pm
Use you for sex?

So something been bothering me lately and I wanted to ask. Does it bother you if I just use you for sex? My last guy always complained that I only called him for sex and kicked him out when I'm done. To be honest I'm not looking for a meaningful relationship, I just want to cum. I don't like to cuddle unless it foreplay. I do want a long term fuck buddy but not a boyfriend.

Pale_Guy 30M
66 posts
7/17/2016 9:48 pm

 I don't see anything wrong with that as long as you make it clear that that is all you are looking for from the beginning, and as long as you are all right with your guy treating you the same way- of course.


northshoretake2 50M  
1626 posts
7/17/2016 10:14 pm

 Does it bother you if I just use you for sex?

No.

A poll might provide a more complete picture but, as mentioned, the answer varies by individual.
Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
7/18/2016 12:25 am

 Does it bother you if I just use you for sex? .... No.

My last guy always complained that I only called him for sex and kicked him out when I'm done. ... Guys born back in the 80s ,and up, are the new chick. A lot of them don't have a clue as how to me masculine.

To be honest I'm not looking for a meaningful relationship, I just want to cum. ....Yes, nothing wrong with that.

I do want a long term fuck buddy but not a boyfriend. ... That probably hurt his sissy feelings.


nerdygirl721 replies on 7/19/2016 2:00 pm:
Too funny.

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
7/18/2016 12:29 am
    Quoting  :
it is just going to take a while to find a piece of meat. That you can call every time you get horny

No. This kind of man should take no time at all to find.


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
7/19/2016 1:54 pm

 Thanks, you guys gave me a lot tof think about. Since I'm new to the site, I really wouldn't want to offend anyone. But your feedback helped on matter cause I know my attitude can be off putting to some people.


brwnman2010 55M
9 posts
7/19/2016 2:54 pm

 As long as you both understand the rules.... No Problem


Suzie_Ra 50F
Ask me for a photo
50 posts
8/6/2016 10:28 pm

 Experience has demonstrated that most men can not handle being used for sex. I agree with Resident_Bitch.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/7/2016 10:13 am
    Quoting Suzie_Ra:
    Experience has demonstrated that most men can not handle being used for sex. I agree with Resident_Bitch.
Seems you might be meeting men who want to be in exclusive relationships. Fuck if I know why.

From my point of view, getting used for sex is a teenage wet dream come true!!


Suzie_Ra 50F
Ask me for a photo
50 posts
8/7/2016 10:48 am
    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Seems you might be meeting men who want to be in exclusive relationships. Fuck if I know why.

    From my point of view, getting used for sex is a teenage wet dream come true!!
Because they sold a fake package of goods. You were shallow as a teenager which is unfortunate since a Childs' value programming is mostly compete by then.


nerdygirl721 replies on 8/7/2016 10:58 am:
Burn. But seriously, sometimes you don't to be tied down.

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/7/2016 10:57 am
    Quoting Suzie_Ra:
    Because they sold a fake package of goods. You were shallow as a teenager which is unfortunate since a Childs' value programming is mostly compete by then.
LOL.. shallow? No. Just a normal sexually healthy teenage male.


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
8/28/2016 10:26 pm
    Quoting IMaySayYes:
    Every woman is different, every guy is different. I think we all wish we had the fuck on demand button to be able press, but dealing with real people with real-life schedules and real feelings, it's not easy to find; and even harder to maintain. If you do find the "pure" fuck buddy (FW, is that all you want? Long, lazy days of hanging out and fucking are so much better (for me, only possible) if you get along with the person outside of the bedroom.
It's funny. When I first joined, I was like a kid in a candy store. I kind of thought is was like pressing a button. Ta da. Super dick flies in, fucks the shit put of you and leaves. But it's definitely wasn't like that. I had to admit I had pretty unrealistic expectations. At least I found the blogs.


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