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Blogs > johnm2475 > Be real or get lost

cheating  

johnm2475 47M
20 posts
7/18/2019 9:40 am

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7/29/2020 12:18 pm
cheating

Why do people on this site care if a person is married or not? It can not be because of morals because if you had any you would not be on this site, if you are just looking for couples or singles that does not say much either, because you are inviting a single man or woman to join you in your bedroom, also same goes with couples, you are inviting another couple into your bed and the possibility of ruining either your marriage or the other couples marriage you invited into your bed. So I ask again why do you care if a person is married and or cheating. Because in reality you are cheating on your spouse whether your spouse is playing with you or not even if the spouse is not playing and knows you are playing it is still cheating, regardless. So, my final thought is that if your playing with other people while you are married you are cheating.

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
7/18/2019 12:54 pm

 You're right... Cheating is basically giving physical, or emotional, attention to another person who is not committed , to you, while you are committed to another.

Why do people on this site care if a person is married ? ... That's the way they are. I really don't care if a woman is married. It's her decision to cheat, for whatever reason, none of my business.

It can not be because of morals because if you had any you would not be on this site, ....People are funny that way... they like to pick and choose their morals.

you are inviting another couple into your bed and the possibility of ruining either your marriage or the other couples marriage you invited into your bed. .... That is the risk.

So, my final thought is that if you are playing with other people while you are married you are cheating. .... Right. That's how a divorce lawyer is going to see it.


johnm2475 replies on 7/18/2019 2:55 pm:
I am glad someone finally understands

LimerickJohn 69M
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1046 posts
7/18/2019 12:02 pm

 I am single and I care.

My only interest is single women.
If they have a partner then I am not interested in meeting with them?


FresnoWoman 53F
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883 posts
7/18/2019 11:31 am

 I'm single. Why don't I deserve the same? I consider cheating wrong because it's deceitful. Single people are free to have sex with various people. Married and attached people aren't, unless they have already discussed *and* agreed to have an open relationship, in which case it's no longer cheating. However, it's still not appealing to have to deal with the other person's limited availability. Lala makes a good point about not having to worry about whether the other person has enough time to see you and can appear in public with you without concern.


johnm2475 replies on 7/18/2019 11:37 am:
johnm2475 replies on 7/18/2019 1:59 pm:
well technically it is still cheating by moral standards any way whether the spouse knows or not, and as a single male or female you are taking a risk of the couple getting a divorce because of you

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
7/18/2019 10:09 am


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