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Blurring the line?  

StickyLips007 55F  
51 posts
3/20/2016 12:33 pm
Blurring the line?


Guys, you have a FWB. The sex is amazing. You've been enjoying this FWB for over a year. And she develops feelings for you. She's ok knowing you don't feel the same way and wants the sex to continue. You both are free agents and can do and see whoever you want. Do you continue to fuck her? Do you feel guilty about it? Thoughts?

AmorphousAmor 64M
3574 posts
3/20/2016 12:56 pm

Yes, the man is going to continue until you say no more


notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
3/20/2016 1:01 pm

you stay friends and enjoy doing what you are doing


suckit1466 58M

3/20/2016 1:18 pm

we're going to keep doing till she says no more.


StickyLips007 55F  
231 posts
3/20/2016 2:08 pm

Man, I wish my FWB felt the way you guys do! Someone please talk some sense into him lol


guy4frot 64M
2811 posts
3/20/2016 3:35 pm

I'm a great believer in living in the here and now and enjoying the moment. We all get dumped on in life and most of us find our way through and get over it. So many of the things that matter so much at the time are trivial and soon forgotten.

If you enjoy the sex, then enjoy it for what it is. If envisioning other scenarios before and after your FWB meets enhances your experience then that's fine. Why end something that's working for both of you? The beauty of FWB relationships is meant to be that they come without all the baggage and strings.

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flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
3/20/2016 4:11 pm

Keep going. no point in stopping, as by the very nature of the term friends, there has to be some emotional connection... on both parts. And quite normal for one person's emotional connection to be at a more advanced stage than the other's

If you get to a stage where you don't want it, then you'll do something about it, from what I can gather!


bob144333 69M
201 posts
4/5/2016 3:01 am

I had a fwb situation like that for 5 yrs with in the first year she told me that she loved me but understood that she couldn't have me totally because i was married.
the times we spent together were great and not just the sex but the friendship as well, she became friends with my wife (not sexually) and they would talk back and forth a lot. eventually she found a man and got married we still talk from time to time but he wont share her
It was a great time in my life I am glad we didn't end it after the first time she told me she loved me.


StickyLips007 55F  
231 posts
4/6/2016 6:41 pm

    Quoting bob144333:
    I had a fwb situation like that for 5 yrs with in the first year she told me that she loved me but understood that she couldn't have me totally because i was married.
    the times we spent together were great and not just the sex but the friendship as well, she became friends with my wife (not sexually) and they would talk back and forth a lot. eventually she found a man and got married we still talk from time to time but he wont share her
    It was a great time in my life I am glad we didn't end it after the first time she told me she loved me.
What a wonderful memory for you.


johneo65 65M  
1 post
7/27/2017 6:08 am

I would continue as long as it works for both of the individuals involved. Spend enough time around someone and it isn't unusual for feelings to develop. If you are upfront about what is going on and the time spent is mutually rewarding, go on. When it no longer works for one side, then it is time to stop, enjoy the memories and move on with life. There is so much out there and so little time to explore, experience and enjoy.


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