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lie I was with a guy I meet on here for almost 1 1/2 yrs we meet he was 40 then of course turned 41 things did not work I ended it. Come to find out he was with other women, I was seeing who was close to me and what pops up but his profile was not sure was his because of the age was 36 so I looked and yes was his. I called him out on this age thing and what he wrote in his profile is all bs of course no word back. My question to both men and female what is the biggest lie people tell on here and why do u think they do it? |
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I think It's either age, body type or marital status. Perhaps they hope that once a meeting takes place and things seem to go well, the "fudged" details won't matter. Maybe they also think it will make them more attractive on a profile if they seem a bit younger than they actually are (I knew someone who did that and it surprised me when I found out that he was 7 years older than stated), but it didn't really matter to me) or of at least an average body type as opposed to "a few extra pounds". Of course, marital status can be a big deal to some.
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5/30/2016 10:07 am |
I chatted/em'd with a lady on here quite sometime ago, listed her body style as "average"! She was 14/16 maybe, which I have no problem with, but to lie Reminded me of an old sales line, "I'll tell u the truth a couple of different ways before I'd lie to u" Good post!
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ltrskr, in the U.S. size 14 IS considered average. However, a size 14 on someone who's only 5 feet tall might be ample, while the same size 14 on someone 5'10" might be slender. There's more than just a number size to determine body type, including self-perspective.
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it is always better to be truthful, that way no one gets hurt
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I have found that people will lie to you no matter where you go. Why?, I have no idea I would guess that they are just not comfortable with the truth. I personally find it best to be truthful and to let the chips fall where they may. The old folks used to say "Scratch a lie find the truth!" you just have to do your Due diligence to find the truth but you have to weigh whether it is worth the effort or not.
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Why do people lie on here lol lol Wow, that's a great question!!! A lot of the reason is that they're not here looking for a relationship long term or a partner that they can continue the lifestyle together after they meet. I find it hard to see the forest through the tree's though, because of all the fake ppl and scammers, fake profiles, what I call pushers, which are the ppl that just talk to you to get you to another site like this one, you name it, I've heard it, and I've only been on here for a short time. To me, total transparency is a must in any relationship especially a new relationship. I like to use a saying that we use in the building industry. I use it as a metaphor for building a relationship with honesty, love, and integrity as opposed to lies and falsehoods. The saying goes like this " A house is only as strong as it's foundation " meaning, you can use all the best equipment, and the top of the line materials to build the biggest and best LOOKING house on the block, and that's good for appearances for those that walk by, or drive by and say " WOW, that's a beautiful house, and they have a great life... " but what they don't see is below the ground, the all-important foundation that supports the whole thing is made of sand and the house that everyone sees is doomed to fall, and crash to the ground with all that you love in it!!! If you build a relationship based on lies or half-truths it is doomed to fail, leaving behind heart ache and pain....
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I wanted to add my picture to this post so you don't think it's just my dick talking lol lol
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