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Guys take a little adivce
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Guys take a little adivce I thought it was time to update on things. When I first joined the site, my thoughts were that I wanted to have one and maybe two guys that I would like to be friends with, and share some “extra-fun” . I’m been with my last guy for 8 years and by no means I want a relationship right now… Many things in my life are upside down. In the short time I’ve been here, to date I had over 1900 messages from people.. That’s a lot to deal with right there. In the beginning , the messages were nice, but when I put on to the site that I was seeing someone from the site, the messages got very messy, people calling me a fake, just dump him and be with me….First off I think you guys could learn a lesson or two on how to actually treat a lady on here, not all of us are sluts and will fuck you right on the spot. The person I chose wrote me almost the longest letter I had on here introducing himself, and from that letter I felt I had a great connection. Messages with hey let me do you in the ass or just a simple hello just get trashed, I’m not that type of lady at all and expect respect… He asked me out to just grad a coffee with him and talk, no let’s fuck or I want to bang the shit out of your ass, He was a complete gentlemen, he even arrived with a yellow rose at the coffee date…From there we spent hours talking and I really like this guy, he never even made a pass at me on the date, but asked if I’d would love to take a drive with him the next day and I said yes… Guys take note, most of us are not going to even reply to you if you accuse them of being fake, or for that matter ask them hey nice shoes, wanna fuck….. That will never happen with me… Out of the 1900 messages I think there are only 3 people I’d consider being friendly with… that tells a lot right there…. Cassi J |
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Not a single guy should be surprised or put off by your post. Manners apply no matter what the endeavor. Prof10001 Swing by my blog!
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That's a fair and reasoned post, it is also very sadly pretty much the norm for most of the guys here, they think this site is just a message and a bang, most of them also think they are the greatest lay on the planet with the best dick and action around and that just 1 touch from them will have you begging for more. Sure there are some women who respond to that, but, I'd like to believe that those sort of women are the minority. In the end, the women are real people with feelings and desires, the blokes hide behind a computer screen and behave like a joke. I don't know about others, but, I'm not going to jump in the sack with any lady that offers, I'll chat and see if there is any form of compatibility, even if it is only going to be a fwb deal. If I can't talk to and respect the lady, she doesn't get the 'goods', not that the good are anything super special. I hope you find what you are looking for and certainly hope my response has made sense, it's hard to respond rationally with a migraine. lol.
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So true, Hot. Some men just know, most men don't A sensual sexual woman can still be a lady and deserves to be treated as such. Good post.
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I can't disagree. The problem has been going on since dating online. It is too easy to hide behind the keyboard. Lucky you finding that one rose in to weed field.  Cum to my blog and respond.  Have a great kissing fun time. 
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I also have to agree with you and also those that have commented. I have come to learn from reading the blogs and advice section, that polite manners when messaging people on here works great. I have had some success with a few people. Thank you for repeating this. Hope you all the success in your search. Please feel free to read my blog at Losnewf Thoughts
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I agree completely. My first date from here turned out to be a great long friendship, and I have seen him several times over the years since, and it was all because he was a true gentleman.
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