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Has Anyone Else Had This Problem Via A*F*F  

redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/10/2019 5:40 pm

    Quoting  :

When was that and did you report it to the site?

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/10/2019 5:34 pm

    Quoting wecoyote1969:
    Had that happen to me as well.
    Senior Sizzle acted decisively when I reported it. So bravo to them.
    They did not get anything out of me and they won't.
    I basically told them that anyone they were planning to contact already knows about me and it is not like I am rich or running for office, so to take their best shot. Also informed them that I had screenshots of our entire contact and just by making that threat they were committing a felony which I was reporting to the authorities. Which I also did.

    I will not negotiate with terrorists.
Good to know and great response to them IMO. When was that?

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/10/2019 5:32 pm

    Quoting twosteps2:
    So far So good up here rascal,fingers crossed,'cause that's what screwed us a few years back.Cam came on with message saying something about police contacted,and then 'puter froze.Had to get it all cleaned up,2 months later same thing............found out computers don't fly worth a damn.Thanks for the post.Take Care.
Hi, just to be clear, you were contacted off site via your cam? Did they ask for money? Thank you

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/10/2019 5:30 pm

Have you changed your password here recently?

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/10/2019 5:28 pm

    Quoting  :

Via this site, an offsite email? Was it reported to the site?

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


ranchomongo 70M

2/10/2019 5:11 pm

I get a lot a "young" women.. viewing me and writing me.. yes I m a lone, , lonely, horny, but .. I m not dead nor stupid... ok.. cancel that I m stupid.. I did , they said , my credit card wouldn t be charged. it was just for age verification..
$89 later plus a charage for international stuff..? and then they charged me $59 and international charges.. lol
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so i called my bank.. told them i was lonely and was in a bad way.. they said they would look into it.. i hope i m not charged..


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redrockrascal replies on 2/10/2019 5:52 pm:
Did they contact you offsite without you having given them your email?

Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 posts
2/10/2019 5:02 pm

I did, wrote a blog about it. I did hear back from McLindo though and his was different then mine.


redrockrascal replies on 2/10/2019 5:50 pm:
I'll check out your post, Thank you NP

TB5758 65M/67F
577 posts
2/10/2019 5:00 pm

No never heard of it happening.


redrockrascal replies on 2/10/2019 5:48 pm:
OK thank you

snowey8 68F  
104 posts
2/10/2019 4:51 pm

yep, some guy asking me to help him get his green card


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
2/10/2019 4:41 pm

I reckon this is a lot more widespread than we would believe. People who are, for whatever reason, vulnerable may have been blackmailed and may now be too ashamed (or scared) to talk to anyone about it.

In my case, we chatted for a while, then made tentative arrangements to meet, it gave me an account number into which I was to deposit money for an hotel (which I didn't do, but initially only because we hadn't arranged a date), then it progressed to adding a zero as the price for its silence. Fortunately I had given nothing away, and would never have progressed much further than we already had without exchanging numbers for a voice call. The profile was an old one (may have been hacked or may have been playing the long game) and very plausible. With hindsight, there were some difficult to discern signs.

Heavy sigh of relief for me, as I say though, I'm not so sure that many others have got off so lightly.........


Lkn4funwith2 58M
1216 posts
2/10/2019 4:17 pm

What I have noticed is that men and women who contact me on IM want me to text them to a number they provide, which would be a mistake to do so. It is better to get a cheap pre-paid phone to get more information without giving up your personal info.


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
2/10/2019 4:16 pm

Do keep us posted, I am sure all are interested...

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


redrockrascal replies on 2/10/2019 5:38 pm:
will do

BiGuy4U53 61M
161 posts
2/10/2019 4:15 pm

had this happen to me once, they sent an e mail saying they were gonna tell my family i had 63,000 porn files on my computer. unless i sent them $300. i wrote back go ahead dickhead they already know. so take your 300 shove it up your ars. never heard a word again...


redrockrascal replies on 2/10/2019 5:37 pm:
Great response, when was that?

lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
2/10/2019 4:15 pm

Red , no issues here in all the years, I do get a quack email or text some times but not related to these sites, and I am on Afair.link… I think all the same

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


redrockrascal replies on 2/10/2019 5:37 pm:
Good to know LfL

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
2/10/2019 4:04 pm

It isn't something that would concern me. I knew it was only a matter of time before the scammers would get hip and consider those who have something to hide.Maybe not for extortion reasons but just for the challenge.

It would probably be listed it on truth finders website. A ticked off employee perhaps?

Using more than all the road!


redrockrascal replies on 2/10/2019 5:36 pm:
The motive is money in the cases I'm aware of so far.

blackdude4white 64M

2/10/2019 4:03 pm

No, I haven't had this yet. I have had a lot of women wanting me to contact them on different sites, but not this yet.
Thank you for the warning.


redrockrascal replies on 2/10/2019 5:34 pm:
You're welcome

wecoyote1969 54M
6 posts
2/10/2019 3:57 pm

Had that happen to me as well.
Senior Sizzle acted decisively when I reported it. So bravo to them.
They did not get anything out of me and they won't.
I basically told them that anyone they were planning to contact already knows about me and it is not like I am rich or running for office, so to take their best shot. Also informed them that I had screenshots of our entire contact and just by making that threat they were committing a felony which I was reporting to the authorities. Which I also did.

I will not negotiate with terrorists.


twosteps2 72M/50F
297 posts
2/10/2019 3:56 pm

So far So good up here rascal,fingers crossed,'cause that's what screwed us a few years back.Cam came on with message saying something about police contacted,and then 'puter froze.Had to get it all cleaned up,2 months later same thing............found out computers don't fly worth a damn.Thanks for the post.Take Care.


bitchkitty2017 71F

2/10/2019 3:53 pm

no I haven't but there def is a couple scammers here lately ..I never experienced that but now I have..


redrockrascal replies on 2/10/2019 5:30 pm:
Thanks BK

mc_justmc 63M

2/10/2019 3:50 pm

Nope, not me.


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
2/10/2019 3:47 pm

No, I have not.

thanks for sharing this message.

I have had other scam attempts made by women needing money to help close a business deal... more than once...

so, it is a buyer beware market...

have a great week!

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Good luck!!!


redrockrascal replies on 2/10/2019 5:29 pm:
Thanks easy

porterpiper1 57F
3755 posts
2/10/2019 3:44 pm

NO i haven't but thanks for the warning


redrockrascal replies on 2/10/2019 5:26 pm:
There seems to be more than just those I mentioned too.

redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/10/2019 3:24 pm

post it note

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


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