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Carla texted me yesterday... You may recall I wrote about the poker dealer from Winstar...
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Carla texted me yesterday... You may recall I wrote about the poker dealer from Winstar... Carla texted me yesterday... You may recall I wrote about the poker dealer from Winstar... She began to "See" me in July (meaning she gave me her phone number and opened up the possibility of meeting outside of the casino)... but, sometimes... our lives can be complicated... I don't know about you all... but, I can safely say that I remind myself of Pepe Le Pieu in the Bugs Bunny cartoons... because I think that patience is my middle name... not Danger... not loverboy... not risk-taker... not over-ambitious... just a simple man... with an easy going way... oh... yes... I like to have intimate moments as incredible firsts with my lovers... each, maybe with a different version of them or me... intertwined as one... She texted me and wanted to know if I had plans for Sunday night... hmmm... she has had a plethora of excuses to not connect with me... and... that is ok... by me... I like her way... she has a smile that won't quit... and, when she laughs... it comforts me... of course... I make her laugh... I wait the requisite 10 minutes before I respond back to her... I am not a piece of meat... I am not just sittin' on the dock of the bay waitin' for a bolt of lightning to strike and somebody say "I'm ready"... no... I have plans... but, this woman is a melonlicious breasted heavenly creature... sometimes, they have many bees wanting to taste the nectar, if you will... but, sometimes... people have all kinds of shit that hits their fan... and, one must weigh the opportunity versus the timing or non-event as it may be... I had asked her out three different times last year... when I saw her at the casino... each time... she had a reason for not accepting... each with a two-week or longer delay... your average person would think that they are getting the run-around... but, not I... at the end of 2015 she went thru a divorce... she has and grandkids... and, has a good heart... but, I'm not stupid, either... at least, I don't think that I am... when the moment's right... it's right... otherwise, maybe, life deals you a straight flush... another time... So... what was interesting... she asked for my FB account... I'm the only person I know with more FB requests than friends... some of you know that... and... I have crazy rules due to my work in the IT business... so... it is hard for me to accept FB friend requests unless I have broken bread with them... And, in this instance, last December, she gave me a cupcake at the casino... and, I let that count... plus... she doesn't seem like a stalker or an axe murderer... but, you never know... (back to my story)... Of course... now, she has had a chance to read up on me... and see what's what... so... I have decided to meet her tonight... I may or may not post about this... I'm kinda hesitant because she has asked me out... which, I kinda like... but, it won't be in an environment that I'm used to... some of you pick out your first meet places and scope them out ahead of time... just to keep everything safe... I like that too... but, in this instance... I'm just going to go for it... I got so excited that I went on to my music channels and found this song that I've had on "replay"... AFTERTHEPARTY - "YOU'VE BEEN SO HONEST [Hook] I said fuck what you heard and listen to what I say to you Maybe I haven't been so honest Oh you've been so honest [Verse] If you're looking for distraction When your life ain't got no traction And you want that one night action You just hit me I'll be back soon I know that you want something more, maybe I know that I done lied before, maybe I know that you want me to call you my baby But I dont want you around no more, lately You've been hitting me up at like four, thirty four I've been ignoring like every call, every call I'm gon turn these tables I won't stall, I won't stall If I fall then you gon let me fall Let me fall I don't want no one to prop me up Did it by myself so I don't need nobody help I'm gonna put all this blame on you and not myself I'm gonna trade all this pain with you this time around [Hook] I said fuck what you heard and listen to what I say to you Maybe I haven't been so honest Oh you've been so honest ------------------------------------- Wish me luck my little pretties... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!  |
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Has this ever happened to any of you??? hmm... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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Just take a chance and be easy with her. I just hope she doesn't rabbit on you!!! (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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This was interesting to me to read about the male perspective on perhaps a first date or first possible time to get it on with someone you patiently waited for (almost a year!)... This sort of goes in line with the post I wrote yesterday, about men and their confidence being built up through great sex. I wonder if you might keep us updated? Hm, this was great post. The song? The song was almost overkill, though I know you were emphasizing a point about yourself with it, Kk The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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Hi Joy. thanks for reading and providing me with your comments. I will go for it... Life is a journey that I am willing to take nice and easy... it is not a sprint for me while exploring the "3 minute mile" from a Jude song, or just living "la vida loca"... I shall go where I haven't been before with her... thanks again... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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Just take a chance and be easy with her. I just hope she doesn't rabbit on you!!! thanks for the encouragement. I am going to take that chance... Should she not show up, I will probably have to write a quick ending to this chapter... I've not asked her out since she said no the last time... and, left the ball in her court so to speak... Still, in the back of my mind I have thoughts of her... have a great Sunday! To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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This was interesting to me to read about the male perspective on perhaps a first date or first possible time to get it on with someone you patiently waited for (almost a year!)... This sort of goes in line with the post I wrote yesterday, about men and their confidence being built up through great sex. I wonder if you might keep us updated? Hm, this was great post. The song? The song was almost overkill, though I know you were emphasizing a point about yourself with it, Kk thanks for the read and the comments... I've had discussions with women on romantic novels and other ideas taken from a woman's perspective, so it's nice to read that you see a difference and have pointed it out... because there is a difference... we are all not animals... we do have a point of view that is different... some with less thinking going on, but, it's there... And, "no" means "no" to me... it doesn't mean maybe... the patience part may be unusual... but, as I've stated in some of my earlier blogs... people don't change over time... their physical appearance and capabilities do, but, not their inner being does not... they may get rounded out by experiences and acquired knowledge... but, if they are good eggs, they will be good eggs next time you meet up, so patience and open-mindedness have been there for me... I will read your post later today... Ok... I'll provide an update later this week... I'm glad that you liked the post... However, the song... moves me... there were other songs that I could have used... but, this one... got me... because... as I've revealed things to her in my FB notes; posts; and posts from others; the book has been opened up... and, I have seen posts of hers... in your signature you state "the observant make the best lovers"... I don't know that that is true... but, I am observant... I see things in books; movies; posts that others may not... and, have written to the authors questioning those points... I do listen... In the song... it states... "oh, you've been so honest"... and I believe that she has... when I read her wall... I see things that I wouldn't post... sometimes, when we are angry or hurt, we tend to lash out or speak our mind... and, we don't go back and change it... the beauty of writing is that we can go back and edit or send out an update... however, once the word is written... it can't be retracted if another has read it... it is there for consumption... I always tell people that the written word is criticized... thoughts, not so much... but, enough about that... I enjoy reading your comments and blogs... have a great week! To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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Go for it Easy.... she sounds like a really nice lady. This first meet and chance for another one might be your lucky break you been looking for.. Please keep us posted how things are coming along.. hugsssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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Go for it Easy.... she sounds like a really nice lady. This first meet and chance for another one might be your lucky break you been looking for.. Please keep us posted how things are coming along.. hugsssssss V thanks for your encouraging comments... I did... I will... laters! To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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