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Faking orgasms... Ok... so, one of my bloggers (I never put you all on the spot)... posted a poll to women on whether or not they faked orgasms... wow, I can safely say... 'I have never faked an orgasm'... It wasn't until about 10 years ago that I even worried about my partner having an orgasm... But, then, I got a rude awakening... when I was told by a lover that she faked every orgasm I thought she ever had... Man, was that a slap in the face... and, why would she need to bring that up? It doesn't matter... what matters is that since that time, I've tried conscientiously to ensure pleasure or the opportunity for her to enjoy the moment... Many times I have not come and it hasn't bothered me one bit... And, now the sexual experience is more fulfilling for me than it ever has been... women have called me (no, not thousands) after our love making and thanked me... That had never happened before... and, the coolest part about it, was that I wasn't asking... so, I have to say that life is good... what do you all think? So many of you seem to read my blogs without posting responses... For the most part I post a response... thanks, in advance... Be safe!!! To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!  |
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thanks for the post wmchick! I don't know what it was, or is... I just wish that the awareness would have happened sooner... However, I am thankful, that I have finally seen the light!!! thanks again... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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Thanks for your response BiggLala... I don't think you are bashing or by any means is your response harmful... It is good to hear from others about their feelings... I think the closeness that comes from talking about your feelings and wants are important... I know that I have shared my thoughts with my partner and she has asked and told me things that I wouldn't know if it was not discussed... So, yes, I agree with what you are saying... Thanks for sharing... Have a great day! And, try to stay warm in OK... It's still cold and raining in DFW... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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Thanks for posting Moxie1962... I would hope that we can offer better information for people in the future!!! have a great day! To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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I haven't faked an orgasm but I have faked my verbalization. By that I mean I have enhanced the "oh baby's" and "oh my's" to spur him on to end a session. It hasn't happened very often but it has happened. To me it was obvious because my natural sounds are anything but scripted. Sometimes I don't know what I said during sex until my partner tells me about it afterwards. Words and sounds just happen as my body responds. Happy for you and your partner that you have learned how to be a responsive lover and that it works well for both of you.
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I haven't faked an orgasm but I have faked my verbalization. By that I mean I have enhanced the "oh baby's" and "oh my's" to spur him on to end a session. It hasn't happened very often but it has happened. To me it was obvious because my natural sounds are anything but scripted. Sometimes I don't know what I said during sex until my partner tells me about it afterwards. Words and sounds just happen as my body responds. Happy for you and your partner that you have learned how to be a responsive lover and that it works well for both of you. I think that the process of communication is part of the whole experience whether we remember what was said or not... and, it is positive to go with the moment while each of us share in the excitement of love making... sharing is caring! thanks again... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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Thanks curious woman... I understand what you are sayin'... I think what is important is that two people try to share the moment and enjoy it together!!! thanks again... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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Just a couple days ago after some really great fun, my lover told me i could fake an orgasm sometimes. I was astonished, since i have never done that. maybe i am too hard to satisfy? or not tactful enough? too demanding? What does this mean? he did not come across as complaining but rather as FYI remark.  but, you do bring up an interesting dilemma... I will never really, truly understand the complexities of a woman's thought... ever... but, I can tell you, as a man who didn't used to care about my partner's feeling during intimacy, but, now find myself wanting and interested in her enjoyment... to the point that I want to know what she enjoys, what makes her tick, what do I need to do, is there something I'm not doing... now... I don't mean it is a million questions... no, not at all, but, over time with my lover we have discussed each other's likes and not so much likes... but, you only get that by being open and caring for each other... I've not been with that many women, so I can't say that their is a holy bible or a series of do's and don'ts... I just believe that talking thru your intimate moments or after intimacy can help relieve pressures brought on by misconceptions or illusions that we all may have developed over the years... I believe that I have been truly blessed with my most recent lovers (3 over the past 8 years) because our wonderful moments have been memorable... not necessarily crazy, but, it's been a feeling where something special has happened between two lovers... I have really enjoyed that!!! I hope that you also enjoy!!! To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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No lie with orgasms is my rule ... I'd rather have a satisfying sex life Escapando a un mismo lugar con mi fantasía Fantasas prohibidasForbidden fruit or fantasy, aunque me llamen pecado Me llaman pecado
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No lie with orgasms is my rule ... I'd rather have a satisfying sex life I think that is the best approach... and, by satisfying, I would have to believe that both parties are willing and caring partners!!!! well, that's what I want to believe!!! just sayin'... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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4/12/2015 6:24 am |
I say if he does it right then you would not have to fake it.
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I say if he does it right then you would not have to fake it. I appreciate your comments. I always say it takes two to tango... When both are locked in for pleasure, it has worked the best for me... Have a great sunday!!! To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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I don't have a clue how to fake it lol. Though I usually have to orgasm ... cough ... always have to orgasm alone "after". At least the big ones I really feel. Partners have told me I've orgasmed but I'm really not sure I believe them lol. Smile and nod, I guess.
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I don't have a clue how to fake it lol. Though I usually have to orgasm ... cough ... always have to orgasm alone "after". At least the big ones I really feel. Partners have told me I've orgasmed but I'm really not sure I believe them lol. Smile and nod, I guess. thanks for your post... That's interesting that you experience true pleasure after the moment. I would guess that only you know when you have truly had an orgasm. I believe that it takes two people to share in the pleasures of love making. I've been very fortunate with my partners, as we have shared our likes and dislikes thru conversation and it has made our experiences incredible. Now, it's not always fireworks, but, I think if you can truly connect emotionally with someone and the elements of trust, acceptance, desires, and similar interests can grow uninhibited it makes for a better beginning... that's just me!!! thanks again for posting... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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Pleasure of love making and orgasm are two different entities lol.
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Pleasure of love making and orgasm are two different entities lol. thanks for the post. have a great day!!! To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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I have totally faked orgasms, usually to not hurt his feelings, but once to move things along because I was just not having fun. I am trying to get better about verbalizing what I like since I am generally with genuine guys who really do want to please me. The best fake ever was with a bf who could not believe that a woman could fake them successfully on him. Indeed, I had never faked with him, but assured him I could. He asked me to prove it, and I SAID OKAY. He proceeds to gently caress my breasts and run his fingers down to my pussy which he knew I loved. As he was skillfully using his fingers around my clitoris, I began to moan, roll my eyes back, writhe a little. In a low sultry utterance, I "mmmmm'd" and "ohhh'd" and moved my body rhythmically with a few "uhhhhh. yeahhhhh's" and impassioned short kisses. Eventually I stiffened my legs, then whole body, then hit my (standard) solid, chin up 'Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!" He looked at me seriously and said, "You really lost yourself there. I knew I could get you." I immediately sat up (since no break was needed SINCE IT WAS FAKE) and laughed, reminding him of his challenge. Of course it was fake! Hope you are still easy going after that
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I have totally faked orgasms, usually to not hurt his feelings, but once to move things along because I was just not having fun. I am trying to get better about verbalizing what I like since I am generally with genuine guys who really do want to please me. The best fake ever was with a bf who could not believe that a woman could fake them successfully on him. Indeed, I had never faked with him, but assured him I could. He asked me to prove it, and I SAID OKAY. He proceeds to gently caress my breasts and run his fingers down to my pussy which he knew I loved. As he was skillfully using his fingers around my clitoris, I began to moan, roll my eyes back, writhe a little. In a low sultry utterance, I "mmmmm'd" and "ohhh'd" and moved my body rhythmically with a few "uhhhhh. yeahhhhh's" and impassioned short kisses. Eventually I stiffened my legs, then whole body, then hit my (standard) solid, chin up 'Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!" He looked at me seriously and said, "You really lost yourself there. I knew I could get you." I immediately sat up (since no break was needed SINCE IT WAS FAKE) and laughed, reminding him of his challenge. Of course it was fake! Hope you are still easy going after that Thanks for your comments. Oh wow!!! I luv your story... I was buying it... Very nice. I'll have to read more of your blogs... My intimate encounters are special. I like to be with w woman that pleases and likes to be pleased. It doesn't have to be crazy... I talk to my lovers before, during, and after. Sometimes, not at all, if not required. Thanks again for visiting! To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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