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Brilliant point about why casual & for that matter meaningful sex can't go hand in hand with respectful behaviour. I think it just boils down to how clueless overall as a society so many cultures are towards sex. Instead of making efforts to educate, inform, understand & be tolerant it just seems that ignorance & a go it alone attitude is very much the norm. Sad but true.You speak your mind in a very smart articulate & honest manner Lala & I know naysayers here really won't slow you down. The truth hurts just look at the current Maga crowd whose leader doesn't know the meaning of that word because he never speaks it.
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If someone feels that they are too good to be on this site then they shouldn't be on here. Simple. And they can take their arrogance with them. I agree with Paul, be happy.
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Wow, I sounded harsh in my comment. Arrogant or not we all have the right to be here, it's a public site. No one person's views have to conform to anyone else's.
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I know, that you haven haven't been to Northern Quebec because if you had - you'd know that our 'little buggers', don't follow us into the sun. ☀️ Just as you are correct, when you mention that I've never been to your part of the country, otherwise, I'd know that - you're 'little buggers', like this sun. Hmmm.... Well I learned something... 🤔 Now I'm even more grateful to know that our guys, hate the sun. I still have to deal with the black flies and the gnats. And those assholes... aren't bothered by the sun at all! At least, not up here... 😱 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I've never experienced someone saying that, but would discount them immediately - as I could not respect any person who shares that opinion. I do happen to know (and have met) many men who are respectful of the ladies they encounter on the site. Being here and being worthy of respect, or displaying it, are NOT mutually exclusive. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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This post touched a cord with me, probably because I feel like I belong in this category. I had to do a lot of reflection to understand it myself. I'm in the category of Too Good To Be Here. I find this place...distasteful. So what the hell am I don't here??? Even I don't know. It's not to meet people (that would ruin my marriage). It's not to look at the eye candy (if you're going to post dick pics, why use bad dick pics, I still don't get that). It's not for the friends I've made (I find most people here boring). If I'm truly being 100% honest, the best answer I have would be addiction. No matter how many times I leave, I just keep getting drawn back in. Sometimes it's curiosity about what's changed. Sometimes its FOMO. Sometimes I'm depressed. Sometimes I'm just plain horny (God only knows what I intend to accomplish here with that, nevertheless here I am flirting with disaster). But none of those really explain it. I guess there's something familiar and comfortable here. No matter how bad it gets here, I'm used to it all. It's all faux-outrage, as the reality is that nothing that goes on here so much as raises and eyebrow anymore. My brain is screaming for something ... excitement maybe? ... that can be found here. When put like that, it sure sounds like addiction. I have a lot to say about the lack of respect too. I have some theories and ideas about that. But typing the above bummed me out 
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I would agree that it is rather arrogant to state that they are too good for this site, and I cannot imagine someone with that attitude treating others with respect. I would say that I've met MORE courteous, respectful men here than men who are rude and disrespectful. I don't think the site itself is an indicator of the type of people. One thing I appreciate about this site is that because we are all here, we've kind of stated up front our interest in sex, and our willingness to discuss it...where as, on a "traditional" dating site, you are still going to need to bring it up if the dating progresses to that point. "Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black
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2/16/2019 11:55 pm |
To each their own....who cares what others think.
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Is that a spelling mistake in the blog title?? 
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As in.......'h'........ 
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I came back to reply to your comment.........but...........something keeps poking me in the eye......... Ahhhhhhhahahahahahahahahahahaha, dearie me, what???????
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Och, ye should have left it up, it was hilarious, especially the angle of the photo........ And I can't even remember what I was going to say first time round, suffering PTSD here!! 
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I went through all the comments. You sum it up perfectly. I only want to add one thing: MOST men take the advert word by word, this is the place where you get laid in hours  so they chat you up and try to fix a place and time in the 3rd sentence. You are lucky if they dont ask you about your sexual preferences. How does this sound? Like fixing a visit to a sex worker, right? Now listen, ladies...in their eyes we are LOWER than sex workers! You know why? Because we dont get paid  Honestly, they only see value in things they have invested into.So we are on a sex site in lingerie and upload erotic photos of ourselves... so we are eager free whores. Simple as this Sorry, I added more than one thing but let me add a last one: some 4 years ago I was dating a guy from a site like this 2 times a week for 1.5 years. This sounds like a relationship, isnt it? The last time he took me home he told me it was over. I still dont know the reason, never mind. By then I wwas into him and he treated me like a princess, so the breakup was painful. Time passed, and 2 years later he calls me if I want to meet up for fun. Surprised, I replied I dont have any motivation to have sex with someone who hurt me and turns up from nowhere after 2 years. You know what he said? Laughed into my face saying 'whats a big deal about it, we met on a sex site, remember?'
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2/22/2019 10:01 am |
Bieing open and honest it kep....looking for NSA fun....hope it works out!
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It surprises me that there is still a stigma to meeting people on dating sites, mostly by people who are not single and have no clue how hard it is to meet someone. The problem with A F F is to the public, it appears to be a porn site. It is used by many has a place to find a source of sexual stimulation to masturbate to. Just logging on you would not have a clue about the actual social interactions that go beyond sex...the groups, blogs and chat rooms. Standard members who cannot read profiles only see the visuals, cannot read profiles that give insight to what members are looking for other than sex. Given that the site tag line is hook up, find sex or meet someone hot, and on the home page there are members pics and cams displaying genitalia and names like fuckmywetpussy and hardandhorny it is understandable. Then there is the double standard. Men (and women) still have the attitude that a women who enjoys sex and is not reluctant to express her sexuality on a website is a slut and not of high standards.
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It's a mentality, I think if you're coming to the site with this in mind than you're likely to miss out on some potential opportunity to grow.
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I agree with you completely. Very well said.
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I don't think about that at all. if I thought that I wouldn't be here, right? I think people say sit just to say shit. I have this one wretched person I know that carps on and on just to see if she can start a fight. she usually can. now, why she is still invited anywhere is beyond my ken, but then i tend to be judgey….winks You cannot conceive the many without the one.
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well said
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