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Instant messenger advice  

dearhunter66 57M
12 posts
5/7/2014 8:28 am
Instant messenger advice

So, this is mostly for the ladies, but guys feel free to chime in with what works for you. I have been on this site for awhile now and am usually found hanging out on IM. I have had some success with chatting with a few wonderful women on there but lately have hit a dry spell. I mean, these ladies on here now-a-days wont even respond with a "I'm busy" or a "Fuck off". I usually start with something polite like a simple hello or how are you, care to chat. That used to work but not so much anymore. I guess my question for everyone is, what are you ladies looking for on IM. If a guy messages you, what does he have to say in order to get a response? Bare in mind that most initial messages are limited in how much you cant say. What is it that grabs your attention girls? What is it that a guy has to say just to get a hello back????

sukmall2 75M

5/7/2014 8:52 am

 I appreciate your talking about the ' issue of responding '....I am amazed that a sense of humor is so unused.


tigerlady555 104F
2653 posts
5/7/2014 9:35 am

 I know what you mean ! but here is a theory. I always answer when asked to chat, unless they are from Turkey then forget it. But I've had men tell me they've asked for days to chat & I finally accepted. It was the first I ever saw. So... maybe it's partly the system & not 100% disinterest. It's just a theory.
All female and born this way ~!


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