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Separate My friend has said that I should make a video to post on social media … when I asked her what subject I should used she told me that I should talk about the lifestyle or Tantric sex... well I know little about tantric sex and I trust very little about the security of social media so I don’t want to post a video that anyone can see... its not that my close friends and family don’t know about my lifestyle choice but it is that I don’t want my to know. I also don’t want men in the community thinking that because they think that they know me and know that I am a swinger that is ok to approach me. There are reasons why people keep their vanilla lives separate from swinging. So how did a person who is so bent on honesty find a position where there has to be some reserves. There is still judgment in the world people who think that they should be able to dictate to others how they should live how they should think and who they can have as friends. It is not just spiritual notions that seeks to dictate how we live but others as well people who think that they have found the right journey seek to take others along the way on the journey. I have also met people who think that their morals should encompass everyone. The worst are the few men who still live in the dark ages and act like two year olds thinking that if its about sex they are entitled to it. My life has to be segregated, just as there are certain Hot button words that you cant blog about here on Senior Sizzle there are also things that you cant say in other places. I wish the world were truly enlightened but for now I just try and understand the rules and play by them in whatever role I find myself. Now I guess I need to go get some sexercize as that is my favored form of release. Happy playing everyone.  Lets Create together. http://Senior Sizzle.com/blog/jadesmith69 we can fantasize forever. J |
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I totally agree with you. Nobody needs to know what you do in your spare time or what kind of work you to. Unless you tell them.
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It would be wonderful to be more upfront and out in the open about swinging. Alas, the sad truth is that the lead cowboy is usually the first to be filled with arrows. Erring on the side of discretion is wise... and since my ex, as part of our separation, was awfully proactive about sending links to this blog to family members and friends (and made comments about what might happen if my employer, or future employers, were aware of such activities), I can fully appreciate your position! Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic
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Sadly, masses are not exactly educated about different lifestyles and most people are quite judgemental about what, whom and how other do. I keep my everyday life completely separate from my naughty life. There's no need for any of my friends or family to know about my private life, especially the part that I'm a swinger. The funny thing is that one of my now former employers is on this site. Since I don't work anymore, I open up a little in my blog without fear that he might recognize me. Visit my blog It's a Mad, Mad, Mad World of NaughtyInSO, leave a comment, become a watcher. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ LIVE AND LET LIVE Be happy! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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I have a vanilla life? And all this time I thought it was a bowl of cherries. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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It would be wonderful to be more upfront and out in the open about swinging. Alas, the sad truth is that the lead cowboy is usually the first to be filled with arrows. Erring on the side of discretion is wise... and since my ex, as part of our separation, was awfully proactive about sending links to this blog to family members and friends (and made comments about what might happen if my employer, or future employers, were aware of such activities), I can fully appreciate your position! In the end the pen truly is mightier than the sword. Lets Create together. http://Senior Sizzle.com/blog/jadesmith69 we can fantasize forever. J
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Sadly, masses are not exactly educated about different lifestyles and most people are quite judgemental about what, whom and how other do. I keep my everyday life completely separate from my naughty life. There's no need for any of my friends or family to know about my private life, especially the part that I'm a swinger. The funny thing is that one of my now former employers is on this site. Since I don't work anymore, I open up a little in my blog without fear that he might recognize me. Lets Create together. http://Senior Sizzle.com/blog/jadesmith69 we can fantasize forever. J
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