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More..... I'm sure the subject of social media etiquette has been beaten to death, but I'm still amazed at some of the assumptions and responses I get here. There's really no good way to tell someone that you're not interested, but I attempt to be gracious and tactful. Given that, I don't expect to receive a rude reply in response to my "thanks, but no thanks." Men (and women)...please respect the fact that not everyone, male and female, is on this site because they wish to fuck indiscriminantly or meet everyone who contacts them. If that's your thing, I don't judge you. Take a few minutes to read the profile and respect a person's limits, whether it be age, marital status, or "relationship" goal. We're all on here because we're seeking some type of sexual compatibility or freedom not found on the vanilla sites, but some of us would like to find it within the context of a meaningful relationship. If I change my mind for a night, it's my perogative, and I know where to find you... Social sites are ALL an exercise in rejection to some degree; but do we really want to try to fit a square peg into a round hole (no sexual innuendo intended, lol)? Just because you're not right for me, it doesn't mean you're not perfect for someone else, and vice versa. So please, stop with the insults, arguments, multiple emails after you've received a polite response. My next rant is going to be about those who blow your email and phone up with interest, call or text regularly, and then go MIA for no apparent reason when all seemed to be going well. No explanation, no wedding invitation, nothing. Or the people whom you finally realize just want an email or texting relationship, but never intend to come out from behind their computer. Shouldn't you indicate up front that that's all you want so you don't mislead people???? I guess we can group them together with those who don't reveal that they're married, those who have a hidden agenda, people who don't show up or cancel at the last minute, those whose pics are ten years old, blah, blah, blah. We've all been there, but I feel fortunate to have met and corresponded with some awesome and top quality people. It pays to know what you want and to set limits accordingly... |
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You go girl. I have the same reactions and find many people to do as you said. MIA; no valid excuse! I'm also of the opinion of being non judgemental as I enjoy damn near everything! Rick
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Thanks for your feedback soooofine. I guess people get cold feet or move on to other pursuits. But it would be nice of them to say so.
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Thank you for your kind remarks Lucien. I somehow didn't think a man would be intrigued or attracted by a photo of my last gyno exam. As for men, it seems to be a contest of sorts: "mine's bigger than yours." I think it does attract women whose only interest is what's between a man's legs. That's their prerogative, but I prefer a man with something between his ears.
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