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Note to Self - How to be really good at foreplay
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Note to Self - How to be really good at foreplay Foreplay is absolutely critical to give a woman a massive extended super orgasm. Here are notes to myself on how I want to prepare a woman for her Super Orgasm with me. Keep in mind that an orgasm is a mental event. Yes I am doing physical things to her, but what I am really doing is involving her brain in the process. Of course a woman's orgasm originates and ends in the woman, but the man can further the process by expert foreplay. I am trying to "wire" her brain to respond to the excited sexual senses I am providing through my stimulation both mental and physical. Here are some tips on how to "get in her head" What ever I do.. • Start with kissing and bring her close to you with one arm around her waist pulling her to you. • Be aggressive .. Let her know I want her • Move down the neck • Remove bra • Play and kiss the nipples • Look for hard nipples • Grab and hump • Kiss through out all foreplay • Lick the stomach • Spread the legs • Start tonguing all over pussy • Suck, lick, hot air over the panties • Lick back of knees • Suck on toes, lick • Rub sole of feet • Go back to tits • Back to kissing while grinding on her leg • Stroke and Use the finger roll on her tits • Use whole body to stimulate her • Remove panties • Start licking and sucking around the pussy • Tongue upwards and around • Use fingers also • Lick back of thighs.. • Look in her eyes to connect • Look at her face to add to the connection and get feed back as to what she is experiencing. Her face is the sports equivalent of a real time scoreboard. "How are you doing?.." • Always be and act confident and assertive. No wimp outs, apologies, attempts to lower expectations. • Look her in the eye and tell her that she is going to cum etc. You tell her and she will believe you. • All women want to be dominated. Some women may try to go out of character to attempt to make me submissive. OK for some occasions, but the fundamental DNA of women is to be submissive. • Stare at her.. Be thinking domination • If say I am going to fuck the shit our of her, grab her hard and do it rough. Once you say it then do it. • Grab her by the neck and LIGHTLY choke her. Don’t really suppress her breathing. You are just telling her that you are the boss and she is under your power and should submit to you. • Grab her body with one of my arms and squeeze • Hold her down so she can not move (only for a few seconds) • Tell her what I am going to do and then do it. • Look at her nipples. They will get hard when aroused. This is her erection. Proof that she is turned on. • Try suction everywhere, experiment with cold (ice) and warm sensations • Such hard on the clit at the end • Tease pussy before eating it • Jack hammer at the end, easy and slow in beginning • They love teasing. • Whispering in the ear • Air going into the ear • Very light scratching.. Make sure going someone. • Use whole body to stimulate her • Look at her face and see what she likes and then keep doing it. • Fast 2 finger come hither on Gspot • Add licking and sucking pussy • Look for her contractions • My moaning excites her.. Vibrations • Clitoral penetration can feel better than penetration • Don’t stop • Let her cum.. • Tongue very lightly after she cums. • Get her going again.. • Keep rubbing and touching and licking • Return to kissing to give variety • Rub her cunt while kissing • Increase body contact as I move closer to penetration • A lot of grinding • Is she grinding? If so I am probably good to go. • Everything should be sensitive by now. • Can back off for more rubbing and fingering • Give her multiple orgasms before I enter her • After play… let her go to bathroom. Have to pee • Talking about sex we just had. REMEMBER.. The whole point of foreplay is to get her excited. My time comes when I enter her. Until then this is her time. My goal is to get her orgasming and feeling the moment. She has unlimited ability to orgasm so I do not have to feel I have to start fucking her as soon as she starts responding. To the contrary I can wait until she asks for it.. Begs for it…. She knows when she is ready. If it takes an hour.. So be it. This is her time. Let her really enjoy it. She might orgasm many times.. It is still OK to continue with the foreplay. |
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Foreplay is an lost art that most forget about during sex. It is very important piece to the puzzle and everyone should have a look at it. Lots of fun too.. hugs V  Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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I actually copied and pasted this section and sent it off to my honey since we are having a doldrum time right now. Some of it is due to a surgery I had that I am having trouble unwinding from and some of it may be due to my meds( we have talked to my PC about this). Maybe armed with these specific suggestions we can start anew. Thanks!! (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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