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I generally speak from the heart and try to always be honest. In the bedroom being flirty, teasing I may stretch the truth a bit. I would never outright lie as it's not nice to play with peoples feelings and emotions. Sometimes your on top, sometimes on bottom always be respectful
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7/22/2018 5:40 am |
I ask for more
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I all about saying what I mean. If it wasn’t great and I am not going to meet again. Even if it ruins the moment after I have to say so. I would rather be upfront so folks know what they are getting and no falsehoods.
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7/29/2018 2:52 pm |
At the time, I mean what I say....
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8/8/2018 5:43 pm |
just be real with me...!!!
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8/11/2018 10:32 am |
Depends on the woman...
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I keep things honest. If it was spectacular, I tell her. If it was good, I tell her. If it was merely OK, I say something nice that's not related to the act. In a long-term relationship, there's more room for constructive criticism. In a recent session with my wife, she really enjoyed the oral. She almost always does (except once in a while when she ticklish or otherwise not sensitive in the usual way). That time, it was good even compared to the usual really good, though not quite into "best in a long time" territory. She even came during the intercourse part of the session. Sometimes that means she could have used some more oral, but other times it means the oral got her so aroused that it didn't take much more to make her come again; in that session it was the latter. However, when I started to come, she kind of misunderstood a signal, and she slowed to a stop as if I had finished, rather than just started. That kind of diminished the physical pleasure for me. Of course, the experience of giving her oral that really worked well for her accounted for a lot of my pleasure, and just being together was good too. The literal pillow talk, when we were lying on the bed together, was all praise. But as we were getting dressed afterwards, I did mention that she stopped a bit too early. And she took it as useful feedback, not a complaint. So next time she's in charge of setting the pace, I'll remind her not to slow down too soon. And I'm sure she'll do the right thing, because she's as attentive to my pleasure as I am to hers.
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When it's just you and me being naked, I don't act in a pretentious or untruthful way. I want to keep our conversation real and truthful. That's how I build understanding, trust, friendship, and passion.
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9/5/2018 5:27 pm |
Truth...who has the energy to lie at that time.
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i only say what i mean. no reason to lie. some responses are fueled by alcohol or just the moment. can me more vocal or less vocal. also more talk if i know she likes hearing it
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