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Staying on AFF when you are involved with someone
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Staying on AFF when you are involved with someone Good morning all, I accidentally erased the first post, so, here comes the second. Of course it's not going to be as good as the first, because I was on a roll, lol. This blog is more of an explanation of yesterdays blog. Like a fellow blogger said, we are all on the bus ride, we just have different destinations. For those of you that have not followed me over the passed 2 years,,,,,,my destination is LTR. This is my view of my bus ride. I am still riding, I am not at my final stop. I am currently involved in an NSA relationship. Whether I was in NSA, FWB, random sex, involved with a married or attached man or simply talking....I will continue to stay on this site. I will continue to talk, meet and do what I choose to. I feel until I have met that person to ride with me to the final destination....LTR....I am free to do what I choose. When that person steps up to the plate and says hey, I want you in my life, and only you, I want to take that ride with you, I want to be the other half or your couple. Then and only then will I stop looking. I may still blog. Have a great day all. Good luck in whatever you are searching for on here. thegrls Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls |
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I wasn't sure how P would react to knowing that I had an account here. Once we discussed it openly, she was actually very supportive of it. When you get to that point, you have to be able to communicate with your partner about things like this. Unless you can read minds, you won't know how they actually feel until you talk to each other. [post 3097853] Come join the half-nekkid fun! Check out HNW Bloggers.  
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Totally unrelated question for ya... You mention that you are in a NSA relationship. If there's a relationship, wouldn't that imply that you are FWB? Why do I ask? Well, I'm trying to navigate the nuances of FWB vs. NSA and I'm not sure I understand the generally accepted definitions of each. Hell- I'm not sure there ARE generally accepted versions. I think everyone has their own little definition/ justification and they don't always jive with our partners, now do they? Any clarification is appreciated  . You know- just in case I find someone willing to fuck me, lol.When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load...
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That is good viewpoint. You want to be sure before stepping off the bus. Cum to my blog and respond.  Have a great kissing fun time. 
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here to cam, the dude and I are both on here, because it is nsa, that means it could end at any time from my view point.....at this point its going in the other direction however. if it was ltr committed my ass would state that and be gone. good to hear from you again. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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thanks moxie, you just made it a little simpler with the bus, lol. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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rocket man, if i am in a ltr committed relationship, I have and will pull myself off here. and yes there actually more people men and women alike that are looking for ltr, that is the beauty of this site, sex is the goal, but it can be gotten in several different way. thegrls Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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blgberrie69, thanks for the comment....thegrls Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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gottaring, to me, no strings attached sex and friends with benefits sex is about the same thing. You both want sex out of the relationship and nothing more, besides the date thing and whatever that goes with the play date. to me its like being involved with a married or attached person, it's not going anywhere, except for the sex. I prefer not to be in this type relationship, but if not in ltr, its 2nd best to me, a little better than an attached/married relationship, or sex with random men. And, there is always a chance it will start with nsa and can move along. with that being said, since I know the dude could move along at any time in this sort of relationship leaves me open to look for what I really want. hope that explains my view of things. thanks for the comment. thegrls Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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with all that being said, I am currently only playing with my nsa guy and enjoying every minute of it, as well as his company. thegrls Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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