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Sex Talk Myths vs Reality
Sex Talk Myths vs Reality Thanks to porn, sex hook-up sites and 'urban myths', sexual misinformation can abound. Here's some factual information that may surprise you. Women Get Erections Too Women actually get erections in their genitals. Even though they’re smaller than the male counterpart, they are just as important, says Sadie Allison, DHS, a sexologist, founder of Tickle Kitty and author of Tickle His Pickle–Your Hands-On Guide to Penis Pleasing. “The clitoris is made up of the same spongy erectile tissue as the penis, which expands and engorges with blood when aroused,” she explains. “You can observe this—just look at your clitoris or touch it when you’re aroused and it will be bigger.” A Headache Doesn't Lessen Everyone's Mood Contrary to the popular cliché, “Not tonight, I have a headache,” one study found that not all headache sufferers avoid sexual activity. In fact, migraine sufferers reported higher levels of sexual desire according to the research done by the Wake Forest University School of Medicine and colleagues. Why? “Our study suggests that sexual desire and migraine headaches may be influenced by the same brain chemical,” said Timothy Houle, Ph.D., lead author and research assistant professor of anesthesiology The Clitoris Is Way Bigger Than You Think It Is In addition to the part of the clitoris you can see, there’s a much larger part, called the clitoral urethral vaginal complex that is nderneath the skin that also engorges with arousal, says Stella Harris, certified intimacy educator and sex coach and author of Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships. When a woman is aroused, the vaginal canal also lengthens as the uterus is pulled further upward into the body, the angle often changing as well. “Not only is this fascinating, but it’s one of the reasons that waiting for full arousal means having more pleasurable sex; sex is best when your body is ready,” she says. The G spot Exists. Except It Doesn’t “G spot" is a misnomer, as what we consider the ‘spot’ isn’t a discrete anatomical entity. Instead, it’s an area of the urethral sponge that is highly sensitive for many people. But bodies and arousal are complex, and there’s no sure-fire technique, or even erogenous zone, that works for everyone. So basically you may have a spot you identify as the G spot but it isn’t a spot and it won’t work the same for every woman A Big Penis Won’t “stretch out” A Vagina A weirdly popular myth is that having too much sex or having sex with a large partner or toy can stretch out a woman’s vagina and/or labia. The vaginal canal is a muscle and does not permanently stretch from having accommodated a large penis or toy. The vagina is incredibly resilient and bounces back quickly. Also, the shape and size of the labia are unique to each woman and are not indicative of her sexual status or history. Penis Girth Is More Important Than Length Many men like to compare the length of their penises but the only people who really care about that number are… other men. The vagina mainly is covered in stretch mechanoreceptors, which means that girth (or width) is a more important aspect of the penis for women, on average,” according to Nicole Prause, PhD, a sexual physiology researcher at the University of California, Los Angeles, and licensed psychologist. More Thrusting Does Not Equal More Fun Forget what you see in porn, “pounding”, or fast, hard thrusting, doesn’t turn most women on and it can actually cause pain and injury. The most common place women experience pain during sex is in the vulvar vestibule, just under the opening to the vagina, where a thin skin stretches underneath the opening that is very vulnerable to abrasion and tearing. This is why generally women do not benefit from (or want) prolonged ‘pounding,’ which just drags the penis repeatedly across this area, creating painful friction fairly quickly. Masturbation Is Bad For You Some masturbation myths are that it can make a man go blind; that it can lead to erectile dysfunction; and that it can cause sexual dysfunction in women. In fact, specialists argue that there’s no such thing as masturbating too often and that it actually brings a plethora of health benefits, including released tension, eased menstrual cramps, and, no less importantly, a “roadmap for [the] body,” A Cucumber Is Not A Sex Toy Silicone, steel, Pyrex, glass, or specially laminated wood are the only materials that are actually safe for use inside your body. Toys made with vinyl, latex or a combination of these with other plastics (for example, a silicone-jelly mix) are not considered to be safe for skin contact and should only be used with a condom. |
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Any 'facts' you would like to share or myths you would like to dispel? Another one that is so false is that you Must orgasm in order to feel sexually fulfilled. Sex is meant to be pleasurable but there are many ways to find pleasure in sexual contact without orgasm. [image]
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Thanks for the lesson on my favourite subject, women's sexual pleasure.
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What great information about sex myths they are so true especially the one about headaches. Sex can actually make your headache go away in some cases, and it's a great de-stresser as well. I had to laugh at the cucumber one, I would much rather eat them myself, as they are so very good for you. They are very good for hydration and have lots of nutrients in them as well. Thanks for the interesting read today and I hope your enjoying your Saturday..
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Good post. I think the clitoris erect beats an erect cock hands down!
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Good Afternoon Young Lady.. It has been years since I seen a Post of this magnitude, we at one time had a blogger that would post informational post , but she was run off.. Some information is well known others are not so, thanks for the schooling.. Even an old dog can learn!!!! Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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Well, I don't see a question posed in the 'Comments' section yet. (*it's the second time I'm checking *) So I'll take a shot.😎 Wow, who knew vaginas were so complex AND flexible. I guess that's why ten-pound babies can plop outta them. 😮 I'll have to pay closer attention to them next time I'm up close. 👍 Or would your question have been — have I ever seen one? 🤔 It's been a while. 😶 Oh and thanks for the diagrams — they REALLY helped! 👍 😎❗❗❗ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Well, I don't see a question posed in the 'Comments' section yet. (*it's the second time I'm checking *) So I'll take a shot.😎 Wow, who knew vaginas were so complex AND flexible. I guess that's why ten-pound babies can plop outta them. 😮 I'll have to pay closer attention to them next time I'm up close. 👍 Or would your question have been — have I ever seen one? 🤔 It's been a while. 😶 Oh and thanks for the diagrams — they REALLY helped! 👍 😎❗❗❗ Here’s what my comment was: Any 'facts' you would like to share or myths you would like to dispel? Another one that is so false is that you Must orgasm in order to feel sexually fulfilled. Sex is meant to be pleasurable but there are many ways to find pleasure in sexual contact without orgasm.
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Well, I don't see a question posed in the 'Comments' section yet. (*it's the second time I'm checking *) So I'll take a shot.😎 Wow, who knew vaginas were so complex AND flexible. I guess that's why ten-pound babies can plop outta them. 😮 I'll have to pay closer attention to them next time I'm up close. 👍 Or would your question have been — have I ever seen one? 🤔 It's been a while. 😶 Oh and thanks for the diagrams — they REALLY helped! 👍 😎❗❗❗
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Thanks for the lesson on my favourite subject, women's sexual pleasure.
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What great information about sex myths they are so true especially the one about headaches. Sex can actually make your headache go away in some cases, and it's a great de-stresser as well. I had to laugh at the cucumber one, I would much rather eat them myself, as they are so very good for you. They are very good for hydration and have lots of nutrients in them as well. Thanks for the interesting read today and I hope your enjoying your Saturday..
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Good post. I think the clitoris erect beats an erect cock hands down!
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Good Afternoon Young Lady.. It has been years since I seen a Post of this magnitude, we at one time had a blogger that would post informational post , but she was run off.. Some information is well known others are not so, thanks for the schooling.. Even an old dog can learn!!!!
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Thank you for the information you provided, very informative.
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Yes, definitely agree that question is so annoying and unnecessary! Shouldn’t he know? I don’t recall ever asking a man that question!
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Thank you for the information you provided, very informative.
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Nice good info lol
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Many men like to compare the length of their penises but the only people who really care about that number are… other men. Whoever wrote that should read some of the women's profiles here. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Thank you so much for your post. Admire those who has the desire and will to research. I love to learn. Wishing you a great weekend.
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Many men like to compare the length of their penises but the only people who really care about that number are… other men. Whoever wrote that should read some of the women's profiles here.
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Thank you so much for your post. Admire those who has the desire and will to research. I love to learn. Wishing you a great weekend.
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Yall are more complex than Chinese arithmetic!!!!!!!
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Yall are more complex than Chinese arithmetic!!!!!!! Nice to see you stop by.
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Glad you enjoyed reading it 😊. Thanks for stopping by. Perhaps you will again.
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Glad you enjoyed this post and learned something new. It’s a bonus when others take the time to read and comment 😊.
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"Masturbation Is Bad For You" "specialists argue that there’s no such thing as masturbating too often and that it actually brings a plethora of health benefits" I have had Benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH) — also called prostate gland enlargement ( non cancerous) for about 15 years . Early on in treatment besides Medication ; I was told by my Urologist that , besides remaining Sexually Active ; that Masturbation also Stimulates the Prostate and can be a factor in Helping maintain against Further enlargement . The Last Resort would be Surgically Down Sizing or Removal of the Prostate !! As I mentioned ; 15 years and still Hanging in Check ; No Smaller, No Larger !!! Since Intercourse has been a non-factor with significant other, due too her medical condition or with other gals ; I Masturbate a minimum of twice a week weather it be by hand or using a FleshLight !!! 🤠
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