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Age appropriateness
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Age appropriateness I have a question for my fellow bloggers. I am in my early 50's and I am enjoying my time here and the few folks I have come to know. I find many of the women on here very pretty and sexy in various ways and I do surf the pics and vids like most I would think. I have a college aged and I hope as she matures she has a very fulfilling adult life in every way. That being said, having a I can't find in me to comment on or LIKE pics and vids of women under 30 or 35 or so. Not that they aren't beautiful, they are. I just don't feel right truly spending any time looking at the pics and surely not publicly liking or commenting on the postings. I actually have a hard time when men my age ogle over very young women and in some cases girls. I am fine with noticing they are pretty or attractive, but to comment sexually about them bothers me. I am sure I'll ever change my mind, but I am very age appropriate when it comes to my attraction to women. I wouldn't even consider dating or a relationship with a woman under 40, maybe even 45. I am not sure what kind of comments if any I am looking for here. I just wanted to express my thoughts on age appropriateness. Does that make any sense?? |
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I'm with you on this one -- 100%. It's nice to read a male with these views for a change. VERY nice.
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Hans does make lots of sense. Lots of women who are younger are looking for the older mature man. I have always loved the older guy in the past and I think it had to do with security with ones self.. You go with the what makes you happy! Excellent.. hugssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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This is what I refer to as "The 10% Rule". That unwritten expectation that we all partner up with someone who's age is within 10% of our own. Frankly, it's been my experience that the Gregorian calendar is a poor measure of interpersonal compatibility. To each their own.
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I understand completely, I have my rules of margins as well, and I really don't see the attraction in older with younger, like I am old and I just can't fathom why someone half my age or more(i've had 18 year olds hit on me) would want someone that "old" other then it's a fantasy thing...younger male older woman.... don't know...but I do know that chatting to the younger male is quite comfortable to me, because I know how I feel and know that it will never happen with me. My choice, not theirs.You have to go with what makes you comfortable. Maybe make comments or posts on more age appropriate females. 
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You've watched your daughter and all her friends grow and and I'm guessing they'd be around my own age or so? I may look and joke with chic's on here who are 18-20 years old but quite honestly I probably wouldn't have anything physical to do with any of them, I have friend who now have kids that age and I've seen them grow up, seeing well kids their age as something "pursue-able" just doesn't come to mind, not they're they not attractive, because they can be oh can they  I have a friend who's 19 year old daughter has a crush on me, its pretty funny but nevertheless she's quite the looker, but nothing sexual really comes to my mind, now if I was say 25 or so it'd be a different story!  I think this is what you're kind of getting at? Greater Than The Sum Of My Constituent Parts! 
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