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The Path to a Threesome  

AZBellaNPooky 49M/49F  
21 posts
9/27/2015 12:48 pm
The Path to a Threesome

Have you ever discussed having a threesome with your partner? Maybe you have talked about it with your partner, or have fantasized about having a threesome during your lovemaking sessions. Do you think that you are ready to explore or experiment with other woman in your very own bed? Engaging in a threesome is something that can spice up your sex life if your relationship ready for renewed excitement!



It is a very common fantasy which is prevailing in today’s society. It actually involves you, another person and your partner. Moreover, many people enter the threesome activity to experience and feel something exciting and new. This happens when couples start to get really bored of the same routine sex that they have with their own partner. When deciding to move into an erotic relationship and add a third, its best when all party involved are comfortable and well known to each other to enjoy this awesome sexual act.

A threesome is the ultimate and desirable fantasy of many men and women. This activity has proven to add new breath to a couple’s relationship. You may want to start out by finding that special woman who is ready or willing to jump without any hesitation in the sack. However, the fact is, most women don’t just jump into the sack with a stranger. The best strategy or way for a threesome, is to first seek out a girlfriend. Develop a healthy relationship and know each other psychologically, personally and then sexually.

The thing is to look for an experienced bisexual woman. Those who are inexperienced are usually not willing to embrace the impact of a threesome. Most of these bisexual women always prefer to start a friendship relationship with the woman to reach a comfort level before pursuing a sexual intrigue. However, an experienced bisexual woman can predict if you are genuinely interested in developing a relationship or if you’re just flirting with the thought.

Making the transition or move from a bedroom fantasy to the real version of a threesome can be a lunar leap. When involving another woman in the sexual aspect of your own relationship, the maturity level of that relationship will be tested. If you have trust issues or you’re unable to separate sex from real love, then it is suggested that your leave the threesome idea as a fantasy in your minds.

In the real world of threesome, one has to stretch, think, grow, learn attitudes and let go of inhibitions to move forward. It not only includes lusting after a woman, but also allowing orgasms within the threesome without hiding from your partner. Moreover, if you or your partner cannot handle this, then it is advisable not move forward and engage in the act.

Once you realize and feel certain about your relationship that it can handle threesome fairly then remember that the person involved in threesome is also a human. The woman involved is not a gift to your man or an accessory for a short time to play sex with. So her feelings should and must always be considered. Moreover, remember she is the one to gain the least and lose the most.

Experienced a MFF? Please share your experiences in the comments!
xoxo, Bella and Pooky

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/27/2015 1:26 pm

Sure , and the best time to experiment with 3 somes, is before you get married, not after.

Using this form of sex with your spouse, to "Spice" things up, is rarely a genius idea. If spice is what you need, get a divorce. Sooner or later, the spouse [or both] will develop an emotional attachment to one of your repeat guests, and game over.

or you’re unable to separate sex from real love, .... I can say a paragraph or two on that, but I'll just say, if you joined Senior Sizzle, you should be able to separate sex from emotional attachment.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/29/2015 1:51 pm

Also before you commit to someone to be your bf or gf. Best always before the serious attachment stuff.


AZBellaNPooky 49M/49F  
37 posts
9/29/2015 4:33 pm

In our case, it's a good thing we've known and loved one another since we were six and each gained experience in this arena prior to being boyfriend and girlfriend for 3 years and our recent marriage! Both being pansexual and doing everything together helps too! I admit I rushed through this post. Might be wise to post a revision... Thanks!


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