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I'm going to sell my car...  

rm_KinkyMTgirl 46F
325 posts
2/2/2014 11:41 pm

Last Read:
9/14/2014 2:28 pm

I'm going to sell my car...


And go to Vegas and hire a Gigilo. I'm only half kidding. As odd as this is going to sound, I've never been on a true date. Now, don't mistake this with having a boyfriend. I've had a few boyfriends, but since I'm from a small town, sometimes dating happens differently. I didn't question it, I didn't like to rock the boat. Any guy that I've "dated," the relationship started by just hanging out and sort of fallen into being bf/gf. My relationships don't tend to last long, especially if there is something in my man I wish would change. I don't try to change men I date. If they want to change on their own, fine. But I'm not going to nag them into changing for me. Neither one of us would be happy then. I'd rather be along then try to force someone to change into what I think they should be. I must have liked something in them in order to start dating them, why should I try to change them?

So, I've been thinking about actually treating myself to a real date with a man who will focus on me. It doesn't hurt that the man I've chosen is hot, sexy and sweet. I think my first true date would be amazing if it were to happen.

I don't even care if we ended up in bed. I just want someone to make me feel wanted. A man who appears to want more than just sex from me. I know it is a fantasy that I'm paying for, but for that short time, it could feel real.

I have friends on this site. Most of them have met guys on here. The men have actually taken them out and treated them to dinner, or at least offered. I don't ever tend to get this offer. I don't know why. I'm worth it. I'm a great woman. I don't demand much. I always want to make sure any guy I'm with has a great time. I guess maybe I'm doing things wrong. A friend recently told me I had to act like a bitch and play hard to get. I don't like playing games. I like being straight forward.

Guys, what makes you notice a woman's profile? What makes you want to contact one over the other?

Any advice on how to make my profile better?

dotdash3 63M  
179 posts
8/12/2014 10:36 am

thats a good question, whats in a profile that catches the eye? A couple of things in yours caught mine. The description of yourself is good, you've made it clear you enjoy fantasies and want to explore that and you want that in a man. Oh, and you are looking for someone who is open minded, tall, dirt talker and horny, hmmmm that sounds familiar...


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