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FB & FWB
FB & FWB Do you think the above comes with age? You know, something like the end of a bad marriage. You might still want sex, but no commitment, so you go in search of a FB. Then there's like the above, but wanting something a little more than to roll up have a fuck and leave, so you look for a FWB. I have only heard older people use those terms, never the younger ones. What are your feelings on this? |
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Really don't know haven't been lucky enough 2 experience FWB.
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pic gremlin When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Feelings develop between humans later in life also.Finding someone loyal and truthful is the hardest part at this stage.Sharing a person with others is more work than it's worth. Using more than all the road!
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I have had the pleasure of having both. I like FWB because the sex was secondary to having a friend. Be safe, relax and just have fun!
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Maybe we just need that connection now and then... Label it any way you want
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Do you think the above comes with age? Fb/Fwb? .... Yes and no. "No", because it doesn't always occur to someone to have this situation with someone. "Yes", because after hitting puberty, and getting some experience, a fuckbuddy or having friends [with the benefit of sex] works for them. You know, something like the end of a bad marriage. You might still want sex, but no commitment, so you go in search of a FB. .... Very good idea, too. Suggest more than one fuckbuddy. Then there's like the above, but wanting something a little more than to roll up have a fuck and leave, so you look for a FWB. .... You can do that too. Also have more than one. The reason being, is that if, or when, your fwb starts getting serious with someone, they will stop having sex with you. I have only heard older people use those terms, never the younger ones. .... Younger people are a lot less uptight about sex, and usually just refer to these things as "Hooking up". What are your feelings on this? .... I wouldn't be friends with women without the benefit of sex, within reason of course.
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Really don't know haven't been lucky enough 2 experience FWB. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. If that's what you are looking for.
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Thanks for popping in and leaving a comment. Good for you. Hope it continues, enjoy the fun.
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pic gremlin
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Thanks for popping in and leaving a comment. You are one of the lucky ones. I shall keep my fingers crossed that it does turn into more.
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Feelings develop between humans later in life also.Finding someone loyal and truthful is the hardest part at this stage.Sharing a person with others is more work than it's worth.
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I have had the pleasure of having both. I like FWB because the sex was secondary to having a friend. You can never have too many friends, and if there's sex as well, then it's even better.
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Maybe we just need that connection now and then... Label it any way you want Some people like to know what's acceptable and wanted from the other person, so it's easier to put a label on it.
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Do you think the above comes with age? Fb/Fwb? .... Yes and no. "No", because it doesn't always occur to someone to have this situation with someone. "Yes", because after hitting puberty, and getting some experience, a fuckbuddy or having friends [with the benefit of sex] works for them. You know, something like the end of a bad marriage. You might still want sex, but no commitment, so you go in search of a FB. .... Very good idea, too. Suggest more than one fuckbuddy. Then there's like the above, but wanting something a little more than to roll up have a fuck and leave, so you look for a FWB. .... You can do that too. Also have more than one. The reason being, is that if, or when, your fwb starts getting serious with someone, they will stop having sex with you. I have only heard older people use those terms, never the younger ones. .... Younger people are a lot less uptight about sex, and usually just refer to these things as "Hooking up". What are your feelings on this? .... I wouldn't be friends with women without the benefit of sex, within reason of course. I'm glad you added............within reason, otherwise you could be missing out on some wonderful friendships.
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I think FWB and I think when younger we clearly seek different things or label them differently Even older, either long term single or after leaving a marriage, I think we realise simpler pleasures mean more to us, and that includes genuine peace and happiness and connection which deep down most of us crave still
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I would never suggest to anyone to have more than one sexual partner. It is their choice if they wish to do so. I'm glad you added............within reason, otherwise you could be missing out on some wonderful friendships. If you don't understand this concept, then you should not do it.
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I do not like to share. Maybe that's why I'm having trouble finding someone.
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A "Girlfriend" implies commitment. A "Fwb" does not.
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interesting thought. i haven't heard anyone say groovy or far out for a long time...perhaps it is an age thing.
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I've had both in the past....I'm not interested in either now as I understand my own needs better. I find sex is much better, more satisfying if there is commitment and emotion there. You don't find that with an FB or FWB. BTW your images have gone AWOL. ~~Anais Nin~~
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You should always, always suggest to anyone looking for "Fwb" situation, that they find more than one. This situation is not a "Sexual partner" situation. It's someone you have sex with when you need it, and meanwhile, they can be dating [having sex with other people]. A "Fwb" situation is NOT exclusive. The entire point of having more than one Fwb, is because one Fwb will not always be available. If you don't understand this concept, then you should not do it.
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Easier when introducing them as a girlfriend than FWB. When I'm in a serious relationship, I call them my partner, as I feel boyfriend sounds a bit odd at my age.
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I would prefer to be in a long term relationship with just one person.
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interesting thought. i haven't heard anyone say groovy or far out for a long time...perhaps it is an age thing. Better than the young ones using..................... Like all the time. Drives me crazy. Every 2nd word is like.
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I've had both in the past....I'm not interested in either now as I understand my own needs better. I find sex is much better, more satisfying if there is commitment and emotion there. You don't find that with an FB or FWB. BTW your images have gone AWOL. No image used this time, guess I used the too many times.
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