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Meeting I have a question? Im a single mom of two , is it wrong to wanna meet someone first and see if we connect before you make a playdate, ecspecially if Im the one that is gonna have to host because they are married or attached. Dont people think about safety? |
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Nope, your correct.
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I totally agree TC. I always meet someone at least once in public to feel them out before inviting them to my home or going to theirs. It has worked out well because there have been occasions that I wanted bail out almost immediately upon the public meeting witch is far less awkward than booting them out of your house. That being said many of us are led by the lower brain and aren't so rational.
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All the time tctruck meet before is usually required!!
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that is why I sometimes like a neutral spot like coffee or a lite snack. Safe for all that way.
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11/5/2012 12:55 pm |
love to chat with you sometime
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I find that it's always best to meet first and size up the situation.. sometimes there's just issues of chemistry that only show up when you're chatting face to face that you can miss no matter how long you've chatted.. add in the question of safety and do you really want this person to know where you live, and it's an absolute must.
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No, it is not wrong to meet in a neutral place first, always safety first and go with your instincts
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You are completely correct.
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12/2/2012 4:53 pm |
You should always meet someone casually the 1st time.
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Hey girly! I'm curious as to why you are even asking this question. Personally I don't know if I want a play-date with a person until I meet them. Yes, I've had SEVERAL men suggest meeting at their place or mine, but it is not happening. However, to each their own. If you're comfortable in that scenario, got for it. I'll just remind you your question mentioned your children and their safety and best interest should be considered when thinking about inviting someone into your home.
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Oh no, I always meet first, never just come on over, except maybe once or twice in the 5 plus years I've been here and I regret those  Just someone was questioning my methods and it made me wonder if people just said "Come on by and fuck me"?
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