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Blogs > OlderButNot2Old2 > Male Female Male Threesomes

Why I Don't Instant Message With Standard Members  

OlderButNot2Old2 73G
110 posts
11/8/2016 6:53 am
Why I Don't Instant Message With Standard Members

I very seldom answer an IM from a standard member and never from a male playing as a single. Occasionally I'll answer a local woman/couple who really intrigues me.

Here's my reasons
• I put a lot of information on my profile about who I am and what I am looking for on Senior Sizzle. Invariably as soon as I start messaging with a standard member, I start having to answer questions that are covered and answered on my profile. Sometimes in a lot more detail than I'm willing to type in an instant message. This becomes very frustrating to me very quick and will have me saying I have to go or even worse I disengage and start giving one word answers
• Very quickly in the IMing they start asking for pictures (to give them some credit that is usually after they have provided one). I have a shit load of pictures on my profile that include me and the type of sexual fun I enjoy. Why do I have to dig through my profile to provide again.
• The third reason and last reason, is do I look like an idiot. Why is it okay for me to spend my hard earned money on a premium membership and be serious about my pursuit of sexual fun. Whereas the standard member acts like you've got to be an idiot to pay the money for a premium membership. Plus a financial commitment speaks to your seriousness.

Am I wrong to feel this way?


VerandahPoly 80M  
526 posts
10/5/2020 5:47 am

 Sounds good to me.


MTCd4fun1 44T  
13 posts
8/14/2020 6:09 am

 This pretty much says it spot on.


Missyx8x8 43F

2/20/2020 2:16 pm

 I'm fairly new here!! I do understand being frustrated with them asking idiotic questions that you've answered in your profile & them asking for photos that are clearly available too. IDK!!! I don't like "idiotic." I hate stupid questions!! I had someone ask me if I'm shaved, I'm not so they asked if I could shave? You've got to be fucking kidding me!!!! That pisses me off so much #1 you're not BUYING me me!!! You're just a dumb ass I might or might not have sex with!!! If your preference is for hairless, then go with that!!! Don't think that you can tell me how to groom my body especially when you're a nobody who I probably won't see again!


suddenlea 77M/74F

9/25/2019 11:54 pm

 Very straightforward and that's telling it how it should be.


wil82000 65M  
93 posts
5/29/2018 7:02 am

 Agreed, you are correct.


sonnny49 92M
Ask me for a photo

12/10/2016 9:29 am

 You are making sound sensible decisions


bi1946 77M  
204 posts
11/9/2016 11:16 am

 nope,, not at all.


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