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They say..too good to be true  

touchofthenight 67F
49 posts
2/21/2007 9:47 pm

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3/5/2007 6:07 pm
They say..too good to be true
Humm.. I think about that phrase and I often wonder the context in which it was meant. Oh, I am sure it is meant to be complimentary. Still, we all have expectations, wants and desires in a mate or significent other we wish for. Ideally it would be someone who has all that we want, but the icing on the cake would be to exceed all those expectations with things we have only wished for under our breath or minds eye.
So if I am too good to be true, then why can't I seem to hold on to good men I choose? I possess good qualities. Stay in shape, stay positive and strive to make the man I choose feel like he is a god or at least the king of all. Who wouldn't want to be treated that way? Thats a question I ask myself alot. Especially when the ole fashion deep committed love I crave doesn't seem reciprocated. We get to a point in our lives when we sit back and realize that this world is nice to be alone in when it comes to somethings, but our basic sexual needs and inner touches of our souls can only be meet by "special people". We like that part of our psyche licked and crave it more and more. I dont want to be alone anymore. I enjoy taking care of a man. I don't mean taking away his individuality, I just want to let him know everyday how special he is to me. Is that a part of being "too good to be true".
Maybe there is something to be said for "it is in the eyes of the perceiver."
IncorrigibleM 75M
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3/1/2007 9:33 pm

 Perhaps "too good to be true" is simply the wrong phrase. How about "a dream come true" instead?


scottj55555 56M
1987 posts
3/4/2007 8:15 pm

 I don't want to diminish what you say or your actions. But any way you are treated (God, King, et al.) just becomes regular Joe if that is the way you treat him all the time. He gets used to it. And while it may still be wonderful, it's not as significant to him if it's everyday all day.
Personally, I would of course love the physical aspects of being a King or God, but at some point I might say to you, "Hey, Sweetie, you don't have to try so hard. You've got me. Let me see the rest of you as well. Only then will our journey to total love be complete." sorry, didn't mean to sound like Yoda there. That's how I would perceive things.
Hope that's helpful.


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