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Blogs > Tennbroad > This just ain't working

I need your Help  

Tennbroad 70F  
793 posts
8/1/2008 10:55 am

Last Read:
9/25/2008 12:37 am
I need your Help

Now you are going to think, this woman is either out of her league or just plain nuts.I had a lovely lunch with a nice man the other day. Now mind you I usually don't do lunch during the week due to my work schedule but I was in a good mood and this is the week leading to my birthday so I figured this would be my birthday lunch and I won't have to pay for it. Well it was nice and we had a pleasant conversation but that conversation went horribly wrong. He told me I was a beautiful woman( I already knew that) had a great personality and a pretty smile, and that he enjoys being with a woman with a lot of meat on her bones. But the kicker was he said although I was physically attractive, I wasn't sexually attractive. What does that mean? That I don't look like I would be good in bed( hell I know that too)? He hasn't seen me naked unless he has xray eyes. So what was he talking about? What can I do to make myself sexually attractive? I would love to know in case I do become sexually active in the future. I couldn't get mad, I didn't know what to get mad about but I did thank him for his honesty. I know he was letting me know he was not interested in me but he left me confused. I asked my male co workers if they knew what he meant and they just had a good laugh like I did. I am still laughing because I couldn't get mad. I didn't know what I would be mad about. So if you can male and female, what the heck do I need to do to get sexually attractive? And as always Have a Very Brady Day..................

spanisheyes926 49F

8/1/2008 11:21 am

 Just means that he wasn't attracted to you sexually. Are maybe you intimidated him so instead of you letting him down he reversed it on you ahead of time. I don't know if that makes any sense to you but that's just what I think.


rm_ChucksHot 65M
Ask me for a photo

8/1/2008 11:27 am

 Maybe he just meant you're not sexually attractive to him. I think everyone(m & f) have a unconsious checklist of what turns them on or not. To me...big tits doesn't do a thing for me (odd, huh), I'm a pussy lover...and I actually like small breasts..or tits the size of a wallnut...ha


moanforme2010 52M
12 posts
8/1/2008 4:14 pm

 Stop having lunch with blind men. If he couldn't see how sexy and loving you are he is a blind man and that makes you abusive to the handicap.


guyfromkentucky 62M  
Ask me for a photo
155 posts
8/1/2008 7:58 pm

 He said you were physically attractive but not sexually attractive -- I'm like you, that just does not compute. Unless by "sexually attractive" he means someone who cusses like a sailor in bed, likes to masturbate with fudgesicles (LOL, we know who that is), or some other fetish that he likes that he doesn't think you'd go for.

I don't get it -- physical attraction is all about sex, isn't it? The physical attraction means "I'd like to jump her bones," doesn't it?

Like you -- I just don't get it. It doesn't compute. Error error error...


Tennbroad 70F  
330 posts
8/1/2008 10:11 pm

 thanks everyone. I feel a lot better that I am not the only confused. But I have had a big smile on my face every since, he made me feel special more alive and determined to be a proud sincere and honest woman.


Tennbroad 70F  
330 posts
9/25/2008 12:37 am

 thanks onestraz you are one of the good guys


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