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First time meetings  

babygirl362436 58F
149 posts
5/12/2006 9:02 am

Last Read:
7/4/2006 7:29 am

First time meetings

I have found since I have been on Senior Sizzle that most men feel that a woman on this site is willing to jump into bed with them the first time they meet. A lot also think it is okay to come to my home on the first meeting. Am I being over catious or old fashion? I guess I have a question for both the men and women. First is for the women, Are you more comfortable meeting in public the first time you meet a guy? Second, Men, honestly do you have a little more respect for a lady who decides to meet in public and get to know you before jumping in bed?
Ladies: Yes I feel more comfortable meeting in public
Ladies: I feel more comfortable meeting at my home
Ladies:You are just old fashion and want to get to know a man before sleeping with him
Ladies: I prefer to meet in public but then go with the flow (might sleep with him, might not)
Men: Honestly yes I do have more respect for a woman who wants to get to know someone before sleeping with them
Men: I can see a woman wanting to be catious and want to meet in public
Men: I am more comfortable meeting a woman at her place on the first meeting
Men: Don't really care where we meet just so you get fucked.


GreenEyez4u22 45M

5/24/2007 6:26 am

BLA YEAH!!


Rubylicious4u 64F
2 posts
1/16/2007 10:25 pm

you have the best response to this site I have seen and it makes more sense than most will understand I agree with you 100% and self preservation is the priority R


rm_bhm4all 55M

1/2/2007 5:52 pm

I have met in public or at a private location. It depends on how much trust you hvae in the person as to what you should do. Most women have sense enough to know what they want to do or what is best to do. If there are ever any doubts at all you should meet in public first and then see what happens. You might end up not even being interested in more than friends once you have the face to face anyway.


amynjim37862 64M/45F

8/19/2006 8:38 am

I guess I'm the odd ball here. I've done just about everything.... some one nighters that now at my age can't even remember her name, some fantastic relationships that either has become alot more and those long forgotten.....First and foremost, who wants a charge? Be RESPECTFUL at all times, willing pussy is there.... anyway.... sometimes I've found that be polite and respectful, wins out... Meet in public always a first and be HONEST! If all your wanting is a hump-t-tump, then say so, don't play games... YES! You can find lasting honest love via INTERNET, be there done that doing cooters and puters since 1988... well my peace is said, and I'm here for what ever life brings.... So if this is your TEA.. give me a holler... I'm always aimming to please! Jim (the hubby)


hotmixednycpl 48M/48F
5 posts
6/10/2006 11:34 pm

When thinking of having sex never do it at your home with a complete stranger. Us guys should want you women for feel more comfortable because it makes things go so much smoother. I public place is always best even if its just to see if your getting the right vibe from the other person.


victor3841 55M

6/10/2006 10:55 pm

I respect a woman no matter what the outcome or meeting is held. Flowers are always flowers and a country boy is always appropriate for the lady.


rm_2atatime 49M

6/10/2006 8:23 pm

I agree with meeting in public. But, having said that...come on ladies.With regards to having sex at the first meet. What do you want a guy to expect when you profiles read "Fuck me in my ass and cum in my mouth, oh by the way bring a friend." I understand the authors profile isn't that way but, many of them are. It's kind of like a womman with big tits wearing a tube top. You are wearing it to get noticed. Don't bitch when a guy notices you. Same goes for the profiles. Don't say you will do anyone anywhere and then bitch about it when you have takers.


BODYTODIEFOR34 57F
3 posts
6/9/2006 8:28 pm

meet in public place if you like him then take it from there.


ForeverHorny_69 42M

6/9/2006 7:46 am

I personally live by the motto "It's better to be safe than sorry". Meaning if I meet anyone online I don't put a whole lot of trust in them until I know for a fact who they really are in person. I will only meet people in public for the first time. It's just smarter.


cageywolf 55M

6/9/2006 7:39 am

public places can screw up discreet encounters


wineNdine11 49M
25 posts
6/8/2006 9:30 pm

Every one who I found on this website, I met in public, mostly in coffee shops. It never bothered me not having sex in the first meeting. Also, I agree that one has to be cautious while meeting people through on line services. There is a lot that we see on TV to be worried about. I respect the woman's feelings if she wants to meet in public.


dolphin23452 58M

6/8/2006 7:56 pm

not everything is set to peaches and creams.


oowyee 50M

6/8/2006 6:30 pm

Hi i have read your mes...and as i still have meet anyone yet,i still belive meetin a public place it would be silly to think a lady wouldnt,ladys love sex just as much as men but are sometime called "slag" ,the truth is neiver men or ladys are "slags" we just both like sex-so meet and chat allways.


rm_moster4u 61M
3 posts
6/8/2006 3:47 pm

It's better to be over catious or old fashion. Me as a man well feel more as easy meeting for the first time with plenty of people around than in a lady's home. There are plenty of sick heads on the net too; that goes for both men and women. I want to get an understanding of her before rimming her out. I plenty just from talking you people.


sexkitten1625 42F

6/8/2006 1:42 am

i really think its for the best if u meet in a public place...looks can be deceiving...even if u saw a good few pics of them.. need to be cautious..u dont want to have a total psycho on ur hands and him knowign exactly where ur living. i say arrange to meet in a bar, park or hotel..that ay u can be sure ud get on well before anything happens and ur stuk in a situation u cant get out of.


Jizzlober2 50M
4 posts
6/7/2006 3:30 pm

Personally i would rather meet a woman in a public place , somewhere safe so you can get too see what they are like before you jump in to anything. Better to be safe than sorry


youllloveit13 43M
2 posts
6/7/2006 11:56 am

I respect women when they want to meet in a public place.It shows they respect themselfs.


LiMilfLovr69 38M

6/6/2006 3:08 pm

better safe than sorry


phatkap 46M

6/6/2006 2:27 pm

you can meet with someone 100 times before you go home with them and they could still be a fucking nut......but if a man just wants sex and looks at your profile and you have pics with your pussy out you cant blame the guy for thinking you want the same......if thats not what you want be str8 up and make known.....if they cant respect that then fuck um.


rm_punter1953 71M

6/6/2006 12:55 pm

I understand the caution bit,punter1953 but why are people on this site?


ready4anythin817 36M

6/6/2006 12:09 pm

I prefer women coming over to my place. That way they know I'm opening up my home for them and once they are there they will notice its safe to be with me.


doingu5 57F

6/6/2006 10:13 am

well I would never meet at my place no matte what. meeting at a hotel or a Nice bar for the first time makes more sense to me. ringing some stranger in or near your home is just stupid


toolman3872 51M

6/6/2006 5:32 am

I figure if you start talking on here...there is still a great possiblitiy you don't know who the fuck your actually talking to. So it is best to meet somewhere in public for the first meeting. And it may sound old fashion but at least get to know the person somewhat before you invite him or her( women are pyshcos too) over. Have some dinner and some drinks and just talk. If you get to know them somewhat and flirt with them it will should be that much better later on.. OR you can tell if it is going to work out or not..


rm_daevolone 37M

6/5/2006 8:02 pm

IT GOSE BOTH WAYS...


latingentleman3 43M

6/5/2006 9:34 am

I have more respect for a woman who is willing to meet in public first before anything else. I like to get to know a person first, before moving beyond that. I'm just not going to have sex with a person that I don't know. No thanks!


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